Does sex always hurt the first time?

sex does not necessarily have to hurt the first time. if you masturbate frequently, there is a possibility that your hymen is sufficiently stretched to allow your partner to penetrate easily. that sex ALWAYS hurts the first time is a huge misconception, many women do not experience any discomfort at all during their first experience with intercourse. the main reason that women experience pain when losing their virginity is simply that they are nervous. when a woman is completely comfortable and aroused, her vaginal opening expands and her vagina produces lubrication to make penetration comfortable. when a woman is nervous, however, the vaginal muscles tighten and she may not produce sufficient lubrication. my advice to you if you are seriously considering having sex for the first time is to talk to your partner about it first to make sure it's really what both of you want. you should engage in plenty of foreplay before he tries to insert to allow you to become sufficiently lubricated and relaxed, and you may even consider using a water-based lubricant just for safe measure. it's better to use it - even if you might not NEED it - and be comfortable than not have it and have a painful experience.

best of luck to you (:

It feels good. And the first time is like an experiment so most of the time it hurts but not so bad that you have tears in your eyes. The pain also varies from girl to girl. Before sex you should do foreplay it gets you in the mood further than you were before and it provides a good way to enjoy and intensify an orgasm.

Also, the second is always better then the first as you've had practice, then after that the third time is better than the second & first, etc.

Hiyaaa

dont worry about it .

it varies from different people ,, it kind of hurt me but basically it was only for a few minutes

the rest of the night was worth the pain ,, but it did not hurt my best friend at all !!

if it hurts you alot the just ask th lad to stop for a minute and then try again then you feel okay again ,, just keep doing this untill is is okay

you can also have a good time will out ful sexual intercourse if it hurts you to much just mess about abit

dont worry im not patranising you im 16 and know exactly how you feel i lost mine before you so dont worry

but be safe chick xx

Sex hurts for the first time for most women. It results from breaking your hymen, which is tearing some tissue inside of you. It is unpleasant, but gets better with time. It depends on the person how much it will hurt, but just expect the pain, it's normal. Make sure you are really ready for it. 15 is young, so you have time to wait until you feel really ready and you're with someone that you love.

Well. If you go inside of yourself it might not hurt as much. Depending on the size of the guy you have sex with it might hurt. Every girl is different just because of how your uterus is. I wouldnt go into it feeling scared because if your not sexually aroused its going to hurt alot more. Foreplay is teasing prior to sex so that you can be sexually aroused when your doing it. It just depends on you... I guess if you want it to hurt less you can masturbate with something a little bigger... but at your age I wouldnt be worrying too much about sex. Be safe :)

It hurts like hell. But if feels good

you are to young to have sex. It hurts very bad and you most likely will bleed. If I were you I would wait till you are at least 18 or better yet till you are married.