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Is it possible to fall in love with someone without being sexually attracted to them?
i don't mean the silly "oh i love you" stuff. i mean seriously fall in love with someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them without being attracted to them. is that possible, in your opinion?
10 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well if you're talking about sexually attracted then yea but to have no attraction for them at all no.
When people fall in love they usually see a quality(ies) in that person which make them attractive. For example, if the person is kind, they would be attractive to you because you look for that in a person. It is possible to love someone and not be sexually attracted to them. If you are in love you are so focused on the person that the physical relationship doesn't matter. That or the person you're in love with has issues such as too much hair or something and you're turned off.
- 1 decade ago
People are often so much in love with someone, thyat they can't picture having sex with them AT FIRST!! However, a bit later, things start happening on their own. The age doesn't matter also(whether you're 15 or46,it's all the same.) I think it's some kinda of a subliminal thing.....Like, sex is something 'nasty and dirty-I mean,of course it's not,but it's a taboo up until certain age, and our parents avoid talking to us about it for a long time during early childhood- and when one is so much in love, they subconsciously feel they don't want to 'humiliate' that other person by having sex or even sexual thoughts towards them
Source(s): Personal experience, I might add, and some friends(man and women) told me the same thing has happened to them, like at least twice - ?Lv 61 decade ago
Wow, I never thought about that before. Well, I don't think that's possible. You have to be attracted to them sexually too somehow.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Absolutely.
- 1 decade ago
yes, absolutely.
you can fall in love with their personality and you don't need to think they're attractive sexually.
- 1 decade ago
well duh! how shallow are you- looks don't matter! they fade anyway... true love is blind! how do you think a real marriage lasts? the people love each other and not how they look!