I've always been afraid that one day i'll lose him :(?

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My boyfriend is 100% mexican and I am 100% polish. He lived in mexico when he was little and I've always lived in america. when i met him i never imagined that we could possibly spend the rest of our lives together. we have been together for almost 4 years now. of course we are both in our 20's but we both still live with our parents. the thing is...he really really really loves mexico. . and visits there all the time. but the thing is, i dont speak much spanish at all. i always wonder whether his parents disapprove of him dating me :( 

i know that he always dreams of having a life there and it worries me. I don't speak spanish, and my family and everyone lives here. i know i may or may not have to face this decision but im afraid if someday he does want to move and i have a steady job here will i lose him?!? or will i have to drop my life here and go with him.

What is your best possible advice for me in this situation! Please help :(

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

talk to him about it. if he does, decide if you love him enough to be with him and learn spanish, etc. 
or you let him go and see if you can live without him. If he does, you can always persuade him to stay if you don't want to go, and if he still wants to go, you got to let him go
When you're born in another country or spent your childhood there, there is alot of memories, he wants to go back to re- live those memories in a way. .

Anonymous · Answer

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billjimjoe · Answer

Well it seems your only main worry is not speaking spanish?? people move to countries all the time not  being able to speak the language.

ǐ&#39;m Here For You.♥ · Answer

wow...this sounds like the situation that i am in...except he's mexican & i'm white . i'm afraid of losing him..i love him so much that i wanna marry him . all i can say is...don't worry about the future just live in the moment....that's what i'm trying to do..good luck .

Anonymous · Answer

Stop worrying. Enjoy him now. Know one knows the future. Ask him about it

SPAM · Answer

Do not drop your life and go with him. If he really loves you he will stay here with you, and you both can go back and vist once and awhile :)

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