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PLEASE HELP! What should I do?
ok, now me and my girlfriend have been together for four years and we have a one year old (unplanned, but happy.) we live together and everything, mainly because of our daughter. she keeps bringing up getting married, but i REALLY am not ready for that, plus i have never been interested in marriage, never saw myself being married. i told her how i felt, but she keeps pushing and prying. finally, she iis beginning to accept that i do not want to merry (in general), but now she is questioning how i feel about her and playing the guilt card. i do not want to lose her, but i just CAN'T do the marriage thing, never really believed it to be nessisary. what can i do in this situation?
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Dude you have a kid and live together. Just get married, it's the right thing to do. Take responsibility for your actions as a man, for your child's sake.
- 1 decade ago
Tell her marriage doesn't really bring you together all it does is write you as a couple on paper. Tell her you will always love her and that you don't believe marriage is enough for your love for her. Ect,ect, ect. Those are pretty much the things that I would want to hear if I were the girl though. Try your best though!
- 1 decade ago
Just continue to tell her how you feel. But if you really dont want to lose her and she really wants to get married it might get tough. Check out the movie he's just not that into you. Ben afleck and jen aniston play out a similar situation in the movie
- 1 decade ago
well you shouldnt of had sex if you werent married but you cant help that now.
you need to decide whether you really want to commit or not but you need to being as you have a responsibility to that child now. she has a right to question how you feel about her. marriage is every girls dream and in putting doubt in her dream, she puts doubt in her heart about you. you need to get married but no one can make you and before you do anything you need to pray to God.
- 1 decade ago
you should have a serious talk with her. Just explain to her that you dont feel that you need a piece of paper to tell her that you honestly do love her. but you did say that you are mainly together because of your daughter.... if you dont love her then you shouldnt be with her.
