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So honestly confused with my heart, help?
I just need some outside opinion and advice, to be honest I'm not the type of girl that is going to hurt a person intentionally but what I tend to do it move on quickly in order to forget the last person I was with.
Now, the problem is I don't know what to do because the guy I am with I am entirely in love with, or I'd like to think so, but this one week we were apart and we weren't able to interact in any way and it got me thinking a little 'cause when we did get back and back to talking again I felt a little strange like something was missing with us. with him it's different, he and I both put our whole into this and we don't want to get hurt I don't want to hurt him and I don't want to get hurt, but the problem really is that I still think about my ex who was really good to me and still.
The reason I broke up with my ex is because we could hardly spend time together because of a condition he had and he needed hospital treatment and when he had to go for like most of the year 'cause of the psychiatric help he needed, i couldn't make it. I just felt so useless not being able to help him so I left him, which I regret entirely. The only guy I ever regretted leaving and I had a few other boyfriends since then but then my current boyfriend came along and he really did show me something new and he did make me forget for the most part. But yeah, I just got thinking and I need some assistance, any advise will be accepted, thank you.
Sorry, if there is another question like this. I just couldn't find it. So excuse me if there is.
4 Answers
- dmyers7usLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
It sounds like you have some unresolved feelings for your ex and that's normal. Maybe it's the way it ended and how it ended that's really got you thrown. You need to resolve whatever it is and the only way to do that is to contact him. Just sitting down and speaking with him about how things ended will go a long way to helping you to move forward. Don't romanticize your feelings with you ex until you see him again and see how you feel now. It's not necessarily that you want to get back together with him, you could just need the closure. Having said that it could be that because of how things ended with him it wasn't over for you and you do need to see where things stand and where you two could go in a relationship, providing he feels the same and is single. Take a leap and open up the doors of communication with your ex so you can decide once and for all how you feel and what you want. Good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
look life is an experience in its own, move forward its the only way ur allowed newaz wot i like to think newaz, what im saying is ur bf now is still good to u, u still love him rite then stay every relationship has problems its the couples who figure out how to deal with them that last, but if u cant then leave dont mess about 1 way or the other this isnt hannah montana u cant have best of both worlds ur with him or ur not. o nd not every1 hurts there ex breaking up, because hes nice now means nothing. people upset are different. best thing to do is expect to get hurt that way it wont b so bad or if it doesnt ul have a pleasent surprise
- 1 decade ago
Your bound to get hurt in all of your relationships that you will have, one way or another you will get hurt, you just got to learn to suck it up and do what feels right and your heart will follow.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You need to figure out what you want and need. When you bounce from relationship to relationship you never have to time to figure out who you are. Take time away from relationships and work on yourself.