How come girls make it look like it is so easy to walk in a pair of stiletto heels pumps?

maintaining ones beauty is work. walking in the tallest stilettos is rather painful and takes practice.

I am 39 (and holding) years old and always impeccably dressed and groomed. I'm a very petite, glamorous woman and I am very fastidious in the way I appear. I am five foot one with beautiful waist length platinum blonde hair. I watch my weight and exercise daily, maintaining weight at 89 lbs. A true beauty must diet to the extreme – I would never allow myself to weigh more than 93lbs. I have a 21-inch natural waist, and 31-inch hips. As I am so incredibly petite, I underwent implant surgery and now have a perfect set of 31DD cup breasts. My morning regime is 3 hours long, bathing, moisturizing my entire body, styling my long hair, applying elaborate makeup to my beautiful face, perfume to all my pulse points, selecting matching lingerie (thong brasserie, garter, hose) that will compliment today's outfit and matching accessories (stiletto heel sandals of at least 4 inches in height purse, scarf, coat, full jewelry-my hands and long nails are usually utterly DRENCHED in expensive diamond cocktail rings)

To assist in maintaining my appearance,I have a standing appointment to have a pedicure, manicure, hair styling, facial and a long luxurious foot massage on tuesday and thursday mornings. On saturdays, I generally spend the entire afternoon at the spa, and have a full body massage, my body professionally moisturized and perfumed,my hair died, professional makeup application, in addition to my regular regime. Most men just cannot imagine the time and effort it takes to maintain ones beauty. I'm very vain about my appearance.

Men that I date must realize my total commitment to wearing stilettos, and must realize the self imposed limitations to my mobility caused by my choice of footwear.Stairways, escalators uneven surfaces, cracks and gaps in the sidewalk, loose carpeting, and slick flooring all are potentially dangerous obstacles that a committed heel wearer must overcome at each and every turn throughout the day. If have gone out with a man for a while and he truly appreciates and understands FULLY the effort and commitment I go through to make my legs and feet look beautiful, I may choose to wear a even higher heel. When I wear heels of over five inches, I am totally dependent on my date to support me, because my feet are so extremely petite,delicate , and are bent into the enpointe position. my date must keep his arm around my slender waist at all times, so I can maintain my balance, and he must gently assist my every move! I am absolutely helpless, and my date must be attentive to my every need! I find it so romantic to be held by a man and dependent on him for my every move. I find that the heels bring us closer together as I must always be held by my date. Ever so slowly we walk together, my slim legs and hips swaying with each tiny step, never hurrying., allowing me to set a slow leisurely pace, I lean my diminutive body against his for support and protection, resting my dazzling made up face on his shoulder, stealing incredibly wet long soft kisses as we ever so slowly stroll together. I am very appreciative of being held and cared for by my date and respond to my date with gentle caresses and loving kisses from my soft pouty lips! Who knows where this will lead!?

is it actually easy to walk in those shoes ? -- Sometimes. It depends on how the arch is shaped. Do you girls wear them everyday or you wear them only on ocassions ? -- On occasions. Does it hurt when you walk in them ? After a little while... But I have bad feet. Do you take your heels when you're sitting or you leave them because they don't bother you while you sit ? -- It depends on the shoe. If I can easily slip it on and off, I'll take them off. If there's a lot of laces and other things, I'll leave them on. Also, what is the heel height that you usually wear ? -- Under 3". They're more comfortable (again, bad feet). Have you ever worn very tall heels like 6 inches or 7 inches ? -- I have a pair of 5 1/2" boots. I only wore them a few times, but they were pretty comfortable considering the heel height.

Since women make walking in high heels look so easy, guys think the wearing of heels is only something women are capable of doing after these guys have slipped a pair on and tried to wear them for an activity. To wear high heels, everyone has to have the desire to wear them and take the time to find the pair that fit properly and are fairly comfortable to start with. One's feet, ankle, legs and the heels have to become acclimated and familiar to the position they give to a person's stature. This may take some time in practice sessions to experience the break in process. Even new heels need some acclimation time. This time is also necessary to increase the strength and endurance of one's body for wearing heels and substantiating the fit and height are still acceptable with in your comfort zone. Once the break in process is acceptable, wearing heels in the public domain can be just as challenging. This also requires the self-confidence and determination to make wearing heels seem effortless. Hopefully from the beginning, you have worked on your stride to walk and move gracefully. Time spent in front of a mirror and other reflective surfaces can be very helpful in perfecting your high heeling experience and presentation.

1. No it is not easy. We make it look easy b/c we practice at home. 2. Some wear evryday, some wear occasionally. Depends on the woman. 3. Yes, it does hurt at times. Especially when you break them in 4. Sometimes we take them off. Some times we leave them on. 5. 41/2 -5 inches. 6. No, I have not worn 6 inches. Scary lol

Easy? Depends on how high the heel is. I don't know about anyone else, But the really high stilettos heels makes me feel like I'm a monkey, Clomping around...I wear high heels all the time, But stilettos occasionally. Any high heel will make your feet hurt, especially if you aren't used to wearing heels. Though, The thicker heel are much more comfortable to walk in. Depends on if my feet are killing me or not. I'll take my shoes off, If they're easy to slip in and out of it, If my feet are killing me. And like I said above, Tall heels aren't my thing. They make me feel like a monkey.

Practice Practice Practice.

I wear heels most of the time, but wearing 4 inch heels almost daily does not become easy overnight.

depends on the shoes as to whether or not it is easy to walk.

i tend to wear stilettos to parties and other special occasions, usually theyre too formal and impractical for everyday wear.

i leave mine on usually cos they dont bother me but i know some girls who take them off. personal preference really.

i usually wear 4 or 5 inch heels.

ive worn 7 inch heels before but i dont really like being that tall (6'2") so i stick to slightly lower heels.

sometimes theyre easy to walk in and wear other times theyre not.

the real reason we make it look easy- we're concentrating very hard on trying not to fall over, get stuck in a drain cover or twist our ankles : )

Hahah, it is not easy to walk in them, and yeah it hurts haha. But over time, you get used to it and you can get different inserts and things to help, and you just suck it up :) I like 3-4 inch heels for all kinds of occasions ! But they make you feel more confident and it makes you feel good overall to wear em (:

at first it was hard to walk in them but now its good :). if u walk on them for a long time your legs and feet will hurt really bad :( if im in the car then i take them off but if im at a restraunt i will keep them on. ive worn 5 inches and 6 inches. oh and im 12. lol :)

Years of training