how long are you supposed to last when masterbating?

It depends on a lot of things. Some factors to consider:

1) Age. A young guy is producing more sperm so it takes less time to build up.

2) How long it's been since you last ejaculated. The longer it's been the shorter you will last generally.

3) How aroused you are. If you are really aroused you will come faster obviously.

I would say a minute or 2 isn't abnormal for a young guy, especially if you know your body. As far as lasting longer there are a few ways you can do this:

1) Learn to control the muscles. It's the same muscles that start and stop you from urinating...It sounds weird but learning to control your urine flow can help. I suggest reading up on this.

2) Stop before you climax. Then start again.

I used to have this same problem and I was really scared that when I was with a girl it would be over in 2 minutes and she'd laugh! Weird thing, the first few times I had sex, I was so nervous I couldn't finish at all! Masturbating and being with a girl is TOTALLY different. With age I got better at controlling it BUT I still do 'drain the plumbing' before a date. It keeps me from being h___ during the date and if I DO get lucky I will last longer. If you do go too soon with a girl the great thing about being young=we can usually go several times in a row! So enjoy and don't stress about it. Lots of guys have this, especially when you are young. The good news, things change as you get older in some ways for the better!

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how long are you supposed to last when masterbating?

when i masterbate i can usually only last around 30 seconds to 1 minute is this bad? and how can i change this? no point answering if your not gunna help

thanks

There is no period of time you're "supposed" to last when masturbating, but generally its better if you can last a decent amount of time before ejaculating because when you have sex you will be better able to control when you orgasm and thus allow sex to last longer. The longest I've masturbated for in a single session would probably be around an hour, and the shortest a minute or so when I've been so horny I just want to knock one out quickly and/or don't have much time. Its good to "train" yourself to last longer and the best way to do this is to have a masturbation session where you have a decent amount of time (i'd say minimum 20-30 minutes) without any distractions and when you feel yourself getting close to that "point of no return" stop, let go of your penis and let your mind drift off to non-sexual thoughts for a bit (but not so much so or for so long that you become unaroused and/or loose your erection) and then start again when you feel that "almost there" feeling has subsided - then repeat this cycle for as often as you feel you can. This is called edging and in theory you can edge for hours and hours without ejaculating. Your resulting orgasm will be very powerful and you will ejaculate A LOT when you do finally let yourself go - which is the best part of it of course. In the process of doing this you get to learn about what your body/penis is telling you and you get to know your limits (which is very helpful when you're having sex and you don't want to orgasm so soon). Remember that you masturbate you should be in control and if you don't want to orgasm then you shouldn't have to, you should only orgasm when you want to and allow it to happen - but it does take time to learn to masturbate when, how and at what speed so you have greater control of it. I'm guessing you're a young guy in which case only being able to last a short time is not uncommon so don't worry about it. I'm in my twenties and now can masturbate for very long periods of time if I wish to without ejaculating, but when I was much younger (I started masturbating around the age of 12), I do only could go for very short periods of time. Enjoy the learning process! If you masturbate regularly and have good control over when and how you orgasm, you will be much better in bed. Mazeltov!

There are many causes to premature ejaculation and every cause requires a different treatment depending on each individual's situation and preference as well. Sometimes premature ejaculation is due to an over-sensitive glans (skin of penis head). This reduces your ejaculatory control. At other times, it could also be a matter of psychology effect like stress, fear of poor performing. A weak PC muscles (muscles located between the anus and testicles) also causes premature ejaculation. Good news is premature ejaculation can be prevented and cured and there are many treatments out there. But to start off, it's advisable to resort to some safe, natural and proven methods which cure the problem from its root cause. I was once suffered from the same problem and that brought so much stress to me and my girlfriend (now my wife). I tried many different treatments including cream, pill and gel. But really healed me was some simple proven natural techniques including exercising my PC muscles, learning to monitor and control my level of sexual arousal, using last-longer sexual positions, correct breathing methods etc. I learned the hard way, but you really dont have to. Here is the free ebook where you can get a general idea of what premature ejaculation really is, its causes and how to treat premature ejaculation: ( http://prematurejaculation.kyma.info/ ) The fact is, you can really cure and control premature ejaculation in a matter of weeks, you just need the right information. Hope this helps.

The men's health coach, Jack Grave, has just posted a free video on his website that explains exactly how any man can last longer (over 35 minutes) in bed. Go here https://tr.im/StopPrematureEjaculation

He breaks down step-by-step how someone who can last even for only a couple seconds in bed can go on to last over 35 minutes in bed.

You must check out Jack Grave's "Ejaculation Guru" tutorial on how to stop premature ejaculation, check out his video here: http://www.ejaculationguru.tv/

It explains how to end premature ejaculation for good. It’s basically a blueprint on how to develop natural control over your ejaculation. It actually reprograms your ejaculatory reflex so that you last longer without even trying.

It involves a combination of techniques, learning knowledge, and following a specific approach that attacks premature ejaculation from all three angles; the physical, mental, and hormonal. I was able to cure my premature ejaculation problem in only 2 weeks and I never had a problem again.

First of all you spelled masturbating incorrectly, there is a "u" after the "t" and not an "e"

Do the stop and go method. Masturbate till you are about to ejaculate, but STOP! Wait till the urge to ejaculate subsides, but do not lose your erection. Repeat this process 4 or 5 times. When you do ejaculate, you will have an awesome orgasm. Try to last at least 15 minutes.

it lasts anywhere from 10 seconds to a minute, but you cant make it last longer, but its not bad, almost all people have it around that long

EDIT: oh did you mean the average session lasts a minute? i thought you meant the orgasm lasted a minute! lmao! but if it lasts that short then thats not ok:/ ....just go slower and delay it for a while so it lasts longer