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sick of sex or of the person i'm having sex with?
so.... I'm almost 16 now and been sexually active for like year and a half (no criticism please!) i've only been with this guy the whole year and a half but i don't know why things don't feel the same as before for me. I used to be very open-minded about it but now I'm rarely in that mood. I don't know if the problem is him or is me! Should I take a break from sex or take a break from him?
12 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Do you love the guy? Getting bored of sex doesn't necessarily mean that you are bored of the guy. Sex, like anything, gets boring if it's the same all the time. Try to spice things up. Get some massage oils. Write an erotic story together and then enact it. Get some toys. Dress up. Role play.
If, however, you find the actual guy boring, talk to him about it. Tell him your feeling unsure about your relationship.
Honestly, only you two know what's best for your relationship, and only you two can work it out together. There's little that total strangers can do to help you. We don't know you or your relationship.
Good luck.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I know when I was on birth control pills, my libido when down the drain! Also, I get bored in bed really fast and like to have sex 2-3 times a day.
If you're getting tired of the sex, maybe you're just going through a routine of the same moves and he's not really paying attention to your needs. Maybe take his hand and show him what turns you on.
I had an ex that after I told him what I liked he was like 200 times better at it. He tried all the time to make me feel good but he was an ex so I had to always say no. To little too late.
He should be trying to get u in a mood and u for him.
For me it was my stupid birth control pills, or they just weren't doing it for me anymore. Do you actually love him? If you do just try and mix it up and show him what turns you on. If he's not interested in learning more then DUMP HIS ***!
Source(s): personal experience - 1 decade ago
Odds are pretty good you are sick of sex WITH him.
If it is the same thing over and over, nothing new, then you aren't as likely to get as excited over it as you once were.
1. Are you reaching orgasm, as least some of the time? If not, get him to work at it a bit, mix things up. No point in a sex life that only one of you enjoys.
2. Do you find your mind wandering during sex, thinking about homework, plans for the weekend, basically anything other than what you are doing right now? Then you need to get some spice back into it.
You can try talking to him about trying some new things, sexy lingerie, oral, more foreplay, whtever floats your boat. But if he isn't willing to put the effort into bringing back the fire, then it's time for someone new.
- 1 decade ago
try thinking about someone else when u have sex and see if its better. if not then maybe it is him. or maybe there is nothing exciting anymore so some people try dressing up so "they can be with the fire man or the cop"
- Anonymous1 decade ago
break from him. If u still felt strong about him, u would have no problem having sex with him
- 1 decade ago
Get a mexican dude we know how to **** and you'll never get that feeling again unless they get tried of you =]
- Anonymous1 decade ago
it goes both ways, men and female get tired of each other at some point and time and it is called a marriage.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
He getting boring, try some fresh MEAT.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Why dont you have a bit of fun with it, dress up! put cream on his knob and lick it also out it on your nipples and tease him! dress up as a devil
also possessions !!



