okay, so my boyfriend says he likes me but he wont hug me or kiss me or anything, i need a guys point of view.?

When a guy likes you, he's affectionate. Plain & simple. Men like sex and they like to touch girls--not rocket science here.

If he won't touch you at all--ask him what the heck is up. Are you really young? He may just be very nervous and need to know that its ok with you.

If it's just that he won't touch you in public--he's an *** and he's trying to keep his options open. He doesn't want other girls to think he's with you.

Good luck!

1. Well, maybe he's not comfortable with giving you hugs or kisses yet. He could be real nervous about you (something embarrassing could be happening. Like you can be so attractive, his "parts" may act up when he's giving you a hug and he could get real embarrassed, it's a possibility) or this could be his first relationship and he's shaky about it. Don't go in for the kiss yet, though. Sneak up from behind him and hug him there, that'll give him the jist that you like him and it's OK for him to make a move.

2. I don't know if you did anything, I'm just answering your question and is going to forget this question in 10 minutes or so.

3. No, respect that he doesn't want to do any touching yet and when he's ready you're open. It's like sex, only more... pre-schoolish? Wait till he's ready, but let him know it's ok.

4. Flat out ask him, why doesn't he want to show any affection.

1 He probably does like you, but maybe is too nervous to kiss yet or hug. Though not hugging seems a little odd (but everybody is different)

2 If you haven't been going out for long, probably not

3 If you consider this, talk to him about why he won't do those things first!

4 Talk to him, just don't make it sound like a big deal

1. He might just be embarrassed or something. It might be too much of a hassle.

2. Probably not. Its us. Think about it.

3. Not unless he completely uses intrest.

4. Confront him in a gentle way and be honest. He will respect you for that.

that would depend how long you have been together? Maybe he is just shy to kiss/hug you, or maybe he has never been close to a girl like that. I suggest taking the lead and see what happens. Or just ask him why he wont hug and kiss you. Im guessing he is just not ready/shy, or maybe he is scared you dont want to do that and doesnt want to rush you. Good luck

He probably is not much into hugs & kisses too much, and I bet he would huge & kiss you less often when you ask him the most...my advice: if someone has to change their ways of showing affection when they don't want too, then, its not a good idea

I'd agree with Maria's answer. My Girlfriend's a Gemini & sometimes she

too wouldn't show me affection in public when we first started. Just a little

more time so that he can get comfortable with you might work, I guess.

Are you ugly? That would be a problem. Is he like super shy? Has he ever had a girlfriend before? Theres tons of explanations for this so we need more info.

If he's never hugged or kissed you then he's probably just waiting for you to make the first move (he doesn't wanna push you into anything) or he is put off by what you've done with your ex's. And you shouldn't even be worried you've only been dating for a little over a month.

If he has and just stopped then it could mean 1 of 2 things. He's seeing someone else or you said something that made him doubt where your relationship is going.

Never kissed or hugged

1. Too soon

2. Doesn't want to push you into it

3. Put off by what you've done physically with your ex boyfriends

Have kissed and stopped

1. Seeing someone else

2.You said something that made him doubt where your relationship is headed

Gl and just because one of the possibilities is that he could be seeing someone else don't act on that

he's cheating and he's ashamed of it. He feels too guilty and that you deserve better than a cheater. Basically he's saying "I'm not worthy." If you want, say directly to him, "why did you cheat on me?" If he responds suspiciously, there's your answer. Don't ask "are you cheating?" Just say exactly what i told you.