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What should I do about this girl!?

There's this girl from church who I've been interested in since 2 years ago, but I didn't have a strong desire to go out with her until this past summer when we went on a church retreat and I fell hard for her. After the retreat I thought that had become pretty good friends so I would chat with her on facebook and comment on her posts if they were on the home page. Soon she started to stop responding to my comments and ignored me through chat. It was a nasty feeling but it got even worse one day when she said in an inbox message, "Please stop commenting on all of my stuff, seriously". I told her that that's what I do with all of the interesting/funny posts on the homepage but I'll stop. It's been 4.5 months since that and I was hoping to just get back to being friends at church, but she's barely there anymore. What should I do about this hopeless situation?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Hmm....

    This sounds quite hurtful, I would say that she isn't interested for her to tell you to stop comments on her page. Maybe try again....if the results aren't +ve, leave her alone and look for someone else.

    Maybe she knows you like her and is using it as an advantage. But if you don't get her, it's still for the best

  • 1 decade ago

    Looked like you went overboard eh...haha.

    Take things one step at a time. Throw the computer away dude.

    Talk to her in person, having face-to-face gatherings...

    But since what's done is done and cannot be undone,

    when you see her the next time in church, apologise and ask to be friends again.

    Sounds simple, but it actually works.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sorry to say it, but she doesn't seem like the sweetest person. in fact you might want to forget her and move on. if she's going to be bitchy for the slightest things (unless you were stalking her on facebook or something) then you honestly don't want to be in a relationship with her - it would be much worse. you're better off forgetting her by the sounds of it. sorry and good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There are 3 billion women in the world. What puts this one above all the others. Nothing. Find another girl to obsess over.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    give her some roofies pill, then bang her.

    your a creep to her, and once your this weird creepy guy to a girl, your basically ******.

    so just forget about her.

    but i do recommend giving her roofies.

    :D

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