Please Help Me! I've Messed Things Up Big Time :(?

I believe if your not ready you should not Force yourself to think you are. And if your bf is a great guy like you said than he'll understand. Just sit him down and tell him how you feel about having sex so soon(explain the pills to him are for your period). Tell him that you love him and that you'd like to wait awhile till your mentally ready for sex. Your still young and I totally understand what your going through right now. And if he wants to leave because you said not yet than that should tell you what kind of guy he is right? Just talk to your guy okay? Good luck

If you are not ready then tell him that. Tell him that the birth control pills are for your period not for that reason. If he doesn't understand then just dump him. Come on, you're only 15 and 16 is too young to be having sex anyways. Just wait till you really made up your mind. You do not want to regret your first time do you? You're both still in school and you are going to break up sometimes. So do whatever you feel is right.

Sex really is not that big of a deal, but if you're not ready, you're simply not ready. Tell him that you want to wait until you are 16, and he probably will understand. Personally, I believe that sex is just an animalistic act, so I do not get emotional about it, but my girlfriend is still a virgin and she wants to wait, so we made a deal that I can have sex with other guys/girls as long as there is no emotion attached to them until she's ready. It made things easier for both of us, because I am not pressuring her for it. Maybe that could help you out.

Girrrrl, If "He is a really great guy and I know he cares for me not just in a sexual way because he's not like that" then he won't give a damn when you wanna have sex. And if he wants to leave you because you don't feel ready he's not worth your time so tell him you wanna wait and if he can't to move on. Honestly I think even 16 is wayyy to flippin young.

~ Be up front with him about how you feel and tell him the true reason you are on the pill. If he is as great a guy as you say he will be ok waiting for you to be ready. Don't stress and don't do it till you are ready. Don't let anyone pressure you its your body and your choice. ~

ok let me get this right.you like the guy but you wont have sex with the guy because you are not ready yet is that right?but at the same time you don't wont to lose the guy right?now you wont to know what to do about this right?well here's my advice to you.in the first place he should respect your wishes and if he can't do that then i have to say that you need to fine some one else.i understand that you love this guy but what he is asking is out of line.if he really respect you he would not have ask you that at all.i agree with you.but here's were it get the problem he's going to keep asking in tell you give in and that right there is not right ok.so stay out of that ok.look if he keeps this up you are going to have to make your main up on what to do.I'm not telling you what to do but if you wont to keep your self then you are going to tell him he's has to fine some one else ok.you see girl's like you are hard to fine because you have some thing that no other girl has and that is respect for your self.and i got to say that's a good thing.not a bad thing.for you to say no and stand by your word is a good trait for some one to have this day and time.so you stick to your gun's.and don't let no one change your main.now that's my advice to you. your friend fred

i dont think you should do anything you are not ready for if you rush into it for him that is not fair to you and another thing you know you could get pregnant i did at 17 and i had only been with two guys i married the father of our child . at 17 i just dont think you should rush into anything because you are afraid of loosing a guy. if he is that great you should be able to talk to him and he would understand . if he moves on he was not worth it most guys are in a relationship because they are ready to sleep with anyone that will spread their legs for them and how do you know that once you do have s** he will stick around it could be a wham bam thank you mam type of thing you need to talk to him and tell him you are not ready and if he dont like it theres the door ......

First off if he really cared about you then you wouldn't have to worry about whether or not he is going to leave you. I say take however long you want and if he can't wait for you and when you're ready then he doesn't deserve you in the first place.

if he really likes you, than he isn't there for just sex. Guys especially around that age are horny a lot. lol and that's when he WANTS sexual things, but don't give in and you might want to wait a little longer, but that's your decision. Talk to him about it and explain, if you think your leading him on than stop leading him on. Show him that's not what you want and you like him for him.

confront him and tell him the truth. if u want to wai till ur 16 then wait. if u believe he's they guy youll have forever then thats up for u to deside but the longer u hold off the more hell be pushed in the wrong direction. so wen u confront him too late hell be gone.