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Do you think love is a choice?

I know what I think, but I would like some other opinions. And please feel free to go into great depth with what you think. If your answer is going to be 'yes love is a choice' or 'no love is not a choice' then dont bother answering ;) If you can, provide me with your love story that backs up your answer :) I love hearing about them.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Love is not a choice but WHO you fall in love with is. For example, you know this person is no good but you still CHOOSE to be around them more and more, eventually you may fall in love but who's fault is it that you chose that person to hang around? Nobody's but yours. You can control your thoughts and actions but once you're into it deep, that's it, their isn't much you can do. Personal experience. Fell in love with a man that had a gf. I chose to talk to him and KEEP talking to him, then I fell in love. Not a good idea to put yourself in a situation you may feel will hurt you....

  • 1 decade ago

    love isnt a choice cos i am a girl and i fell in love with this other girl she was a friend an i started havin feelins for her i was straight then an it took me 2 years to tell her i had feelins for her so we got together an then she cheateed she dint care about me i was so hurt an heartbroken but i gav her another chance an we had a rough start but we eventually fell in love an its now comng up to 11 months wer so happy togetherr shes amazin an were so in love :) x

  • kj
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I don't think it's a choice, you can't really help who you fall in love with. Your heart makes the choice, not your brain.

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