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It didn't feel good when my boyfriend...?
fingered me. He was the first [and the only so far] to do that.
The first time it hurt a lot, but after that it didn't..but it didn't feel good. It just felt like..nothing.
I was just wondering why? Was it me? Was it him?I was comfortable with him and everything.
We're not together anymore, but next time that happens, I want to be able to enjoy it, not just sit there and pretend to like it.
And please don't say to do it to myself...that just.....kind of grosses me out, lol.
Thank you.
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
if you didnt really get anything out of it he just wasn't hitting the right places, it's not you. for example i never got anything out of it with my ex but my current bf can get me just right. make sure you indicate what feels good and whats just not doing anything so he knows where to go otherwise how else is he gonna know
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well the first time will always hurt but tell him to do it with more fingers or tell him where to go. You may have to do it to yourself so you can tell him where and how to do it :/ Sorry. Its the best way. Just try it once, you may like it.
- 1 decade ago
He should use more fingers.
It doesn't really feel great to me either except for when he first starts but then it gets boring.
Just tell him to change it up a bit and do different things and use more fingers!
Help with mine?(easy points)
- 1 decade ago
i completely understand. people get turned off by different things. fingering may just not be your thing. next time, ask your boyfriend to try different things and different ways of pleasuring you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well it was most likely they way he did it... i have had 2 giys do it to me and the firs one was like nothing.... but my fiancee is like amazing.... and it could also be that u might not have realy wanted him to be your first..... so next time make sure u realy want it and not cuz he ses stuf that macks u think u want it...