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How much should you tell your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend about your past relationships?

Choose one of those answer, or u can answer what ever u want:

1.Everything - there should be no secrets

2.Nothing - it's nobody's business but my own

3.A little - keep some of it a mystery

4.Don't ask don't tell policy

4 Answers

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  • Bub
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    5. Only as much as you think they can take or that will make your relationship "hotter". Some people like to know, some may not.

  • Poppet
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    4 (but if you have an STD you MUST tell them before you become sexually active)

  • .
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    3...a little.

    Nobody needs to know every intimate detail of your past, but they do have the right to know that you've had relationships (long term or not), that you are disease free if you are sexually active, and whether or not you have any kids by previous partners/encounters.

    They don't need to know how many relationships/lovers, what positions, etc. Why share things anyway that could cause your new partner to feel jealous or insecure. I don't want to know everything about my partner's past. I don't care how many women he's screwed, what they did together, or any of that. I care about him being disease free, capable of monogamy, and how he treats me. ☺♥☻

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Um, number 1.

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