Getting guys to approach you?

Question

I have never had a guy come up and actually try to talk and get to know me. My friend said perhapes its because I am independent and look like I am uninterested, but I do not mean to appear this way. There was even a guy I was interested in in one of my college classes and when it was just me and him waiting in the hallway he never talked to me. I know I could have talked to him just as easy, but my problem is I don't know what signals make guys approach and want to get to know you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There are multiple ways. Try eye contact, if a guy knows you're looking at him it makes it much easier for him to walk up to you and say hello. Also, when he notices you noticing him, smile at him. If that fails, why not try initiating the contact? It IS okay for you to be the one to walk up to him and say "hello". If THAT fails, then the guy just isn't attracted to you.

snorkeling_llama · Answer

Make eye-contact with the guys you want to approach you. When they're looking back at you, smile. Maybe say, "Hey."

They will be MUCH more likely to approach you.

BadBoy11 · Answer

I couldn't tell you. I personally don't bother to just go up to some random girl and try to do something unless I actually know them, have seen what they're like, and I know I'm truly interested. So if you're interested in a guy, my best advice would be just see what he's like (not in a stalkerish way) And if you like him personality-wise too, just approach him and bring up something that you (just so happen) to have in common.

Anonymous · Answer

maybe your friend is right.  guys look for a certain vibe with girls.  that's why in movies, girls who are trying to get a guys attention pretend like their laughing and living it up in a conversation with a friend.  try to be more "light."  laugh and smile.  this definately attracts boys.

VJ · Answer

drop something on the ground and they will come pick it up for you

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