what would you think if you ask someone out for dinner and a movie?

spend the night as in ... spend the night / sex? or spend the night as in you're upset with a friend going to another person's sleepover party?

Details are important.

But yes, either way I'd be ticked.

Kelly, all I can say is HOW RUDE! If they are not that committed to you to spend an evening with you, how can you trust this person with anything else in your relationship. You do not deserve that! You can tell this person how you feel and move on. There are other honest people out there to spend time with and deserve your company.

WOW I would feel like a piece of poop . What kind of question is this. The answer is easy. I would feel really bad and I would never talk to that person in my life

If he/she isn't ur bf/gf then u shouldn't care cuz u could also do the same. But if they were that's messed up but every one thinks different when their not in the shoes of the person doing it

it would depend of whom they're spending the rest of the night with

if hes spending it with the guys then thats fine

but if hes spending it with a babe then perhaps hes not feeling a relationship with you

Well it sounds like you need to determine what kind of relationship you guys have. And if the feeling is mutual.

unless you had already indicated you wanted casual sex then i would tell him to get lost thinkinfg he only wanted one thing ,trouble these days some women do arrange such meetings ,personaly i think it better to enjoy the slow approach ,but always be prepared

well it's seems like they may not feel the same way as you do. or may be just didn't pick up the Vibe you was throwing out. try again and see what happen keep up post it.

well mabey they like the person they want to spend time with afterwards? do you 'like' them? or just as friends? do they know how you feel?

Theyre really not into you!!! God Bless and Good Luck