I dont like my bf at all. help?

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ughh he txted me just now. -.-'' 

kay so i did a few things. Bad things. I've been flirting with other guys, and well, honestly, im not into my bf at all. hes sweet and everything any girl could want, but i just do not like him. i dont know why, i guess something must be wrong with my head. He's wonderful. but i just, im not into it at all. I mean honestly, I like his friend more. and thats saying something. hes obsessed with me though. i said yes because hes liked me for the longest time and i thought i liked him. I mean, i knew i didn't like him much, but honestly its sad. Hes literally obsessed and openly admits it. weve lasted for like 5 days now. I've been hating it. i mean ughhhh i hate this. i feel like im living a lie. which i am. oh and i've been flirting around too... not like actually cheating, but talking about cheating..... judge me call me a whore or whatever, but i'd just rather you answer the question, 

how do i break up with the guy? 
or
he said that if i cheated then he'd break up with me, (it came into topic) so how do i tell him that i did, or am, gently though?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you don't like him its simple, break it off. He's going to feel more hurt by you if you go behind his back and flirt with other guys, not the answer.

Next time you see him, tell him that your just not feeling it, and that you can't force yourself to like him, and you dont want to continue a relationship your not happy in.

Don't feel bad, you did nothing wrong, your simply flirting because you are NOT interested in who your with and you know theres someone better out there. We;'ve all been through it, your not a slut its just what people do...now dont wait much longer, tell him how you feel and end it, you'll feel alot better when its over, then you can flirt all you want without feeling bad.

Anonymous · Answer

i would just tell him the truth. I've been in a similar situation and it will suck because you will really hurt his feelings, but you cant just pretend to like him and that everything is okay. I would just explain to him that he is a really great guy, but you're not as into the relationship and he is and that it isn't fair to drag him along when you have intention of staying with him, or even being faithful.
It sucks, and the truth hurts sometimes.But its much better to just tell him whats going on.

Good Luck

Anonymous · Answer

just tell himbut his feeling will be hurt but i think he truly deserves you and you are cheating on him if he cheated on you how would he feel
rethink

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