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it is still hard, how can i make it easier for me?

Here i go again, Iam in germany, my ex-boyfriend had to leave to the states, for the military, but he wanted to come back after 2 years, we were together for 2 years, now 3 weeks agao he dumped me, in a very mean way.......he just send me an text message from his phone, that he is done with me, a day before he told me how much he loved me and that he cant wait to come back to germany.

After he dumped me , i found out that he have a other girlfriend, allready 5 weeks.

It still hurts me a lot.

I tried to send him an e-mail, but he never answer one............i dont get a sorry and no why.....

Right now i have this moments, iam very sad ans i miss him a lot., what can i do.....i need help

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Girl, you have nothing to worry about. Yeah it hurts now, but you are a beautiful girl, you will bounce back in no time. Forget him, he sounds like a jerk anyway. Cry just a FEW tears if needed, then pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start living and having fun!! You make it easier by moving on to something you enjoy, not necessarily a new guy, but some quality YOU time to get your mind off the situation. Don't Stay At Home...Get Out

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sorry my dear. You have been dumped by a coward and a cheat. You can look at this as a blessing, you saved yourself a few more wasted years with a guy that was not committed to you in the first place. At least you did not have children with him, so count that as a blessing also. The hurt will go away, and you will find another that will love and respect you, be patient, good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He sounds very disrespectful, probably a player or user, so it would be best to work through the hurt the best you can and wait for someone a little more kinder and mature to share your life and time with. And there are some in the military, believe it or not, if you're into men in uniform.

  • Eric S
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    The question you should be asking yourself is, "Why do you miss him?!" The guy cheated on you while you were dating, blew off via text in a very mean way, and obviously doesn't want to have anything to do with you. Move on with your life! Forget this loser! You're in pain because you keep thinking of the pain he put you through. You need to forge ahead into the future and purge every memory you had of this weenie.

  • 1 decade ago

    Get a new Boy T...., Hupps!! or new bat...@@, I'm doing it once more...., sorry... .

    Not, really. I'm sure you can get a new Boy Friend in less than 5 minutes is not that hard, we guys are,...not to dificult to handel, some times.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    u cant do nothing i know it hurts a lot but what can u do?? if u already write him what else u can do if he already have another girlfriend,it hurts a lot i been in ur place,u are pretty u can found someone else

  • 1 decade ago

    Watch hindi movie " JAB WE MET" i bet it will work.

    download link :

    http://www.monova.org/details/222525/%5BHINDI%5D%2...

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