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What is his problem with me?

So...my boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago. He said that his parents were making him do it because they didn't want him to ruin a friendship with his previous girlfriend who he broke up with not to long ago. I know,confusing. He's also not allowed to text me or he'll get grounded and his parents are having his texts monitored but we were talking via facebook.

The problem is, he went on vacation soon after and we didn't really get to talk about it and I was sure he'd try to get back to me and talk about when he got back. Well I was wrong,didn't make any sort of connection and now he's leaving again and now I'm really unsure that he'll even try to talk to me again.

This just confuses me because when we were talking, he told me he had no problem with me and it was soley his parents choice. If that was true then why would he be ignoring my messages.

Please no caddy comments,I just want some opinions since some of my friends aren't great when it comes to stuff like this.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Remember two things, first there is nothing wrong with you,

    second everyone is where they want to be.

    That means he is where he wants to be and so are you.

    You want to be suffering so you are.

    If you did not want to be suffering you would not be suffering.

    If he did not want to be where he is, he would be wherever he wants to be.

    Those rules work for everyone everywhere at any age in any relationship. People move on until they no longer wish to move on.

    The one thing that never ever changes in life is change.

    Change will ALWAYS take place.

    Get over it, get used to it, accept it and go find someone that is nuts over you, they are out there waiting for you,

    so why do you keep reading this

    when you should be out there letting them find you???????

    still reading??? are ya crazy???

    go have fun and quit suffering

    By By

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that if he really liked you, he would find a way to communicate with you secretly so that his parents wouldn't find out. Honestly, just ignore him because that seems to be what he's doing. I think that maybe you should start to move on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sound like a big lie to me. He probably just used that so that he could go on his vacation and be single at the same time...

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