Why is love so terrible?

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Why does love only lead to heart break? I love this girl with all my heart for almost two years and then out of the blue she just breaks my heart for some stupid reason. She did it because I didn't like to kiss her in public and it made her feel insecure even though I told her day in and day out how amazing she is and how much I loved her. She never told me she had such a big problem with it because she didn't want to make me feel bad, and yet here I am heartbroken. I wouldn't have even felt bad if she just told me. I would have fixed it and we'd both be happy together.

Now it's been months since the breakup. She's as happy as can be and i'm still miserable. I can't stop thinking about her and wanting her back because I know that if she just gave me a second chance I could fix everything. But all I hear from her is 'I don't want to'. Now i'm in a lose lose situation. I hate it so much. Apparantly I was so bad to her that i'm not even worth another chance. Now she's intersted in someone else and I can't even think about anyone else. I'm so sick of hearing everything gets better with time because it's been months and nothing has changed. 

So why even bother with this anymore? I love a girl more than the world and do everything I can to make her happy and in return she breaks my heart for something I could have fixed. It's pretty hard not to be cynical anymore.

Alyssa · Accepted Answer

God is love.And God id not terrible,your experiences are not love,but fake foolishness.True love can be found through God and doing His will.I hope you find it some day,My best wishes to you.

MILF IN TRAINING · Answer

Yeah, well, welcome to life. 

You're not alone in feeling this way. Where do you think all that depressing poetry, love songs and art came from? Heartbreak! Misery! Take your whiny depressive mood and turn it into something worthwhile. Work out, read a book, maybe try to write a book, learn a second language, travel, spend time with friends, find someone else!

Or lay down and die. It's up to you.

Kelly · Answer

Everyone has their own thought process of how things should go. When they don't go that way, you are disppointed and let down. That is life. Move on and pick yourself up. She will at somepoint leave this relationship for what ever reason she can come up with.

NYC_Dream · Answer

Well love is just like that,and i hate it.
Anyway,i one daywas sitting and thinking...Does love exist or its in our mind,So i thought of this if u got hit on my head with something and i would have memory loss of things...would i remember that i love someone? 


So its just in your mind,keep your mind busy with other things and forget about love.Im really sorry to say that and im sorry for myself that my life made me think this way.But damn...

Anonymous · Answer

his total kin thinks in basic terms cuz u have a place jointly, they are in a position to all pass in and stay in ur front room perpetually and ever and ever.... while the have confidence is lengthy gone while he places kin until now you each and every of the time

Megan M · Answer

love is so hard
i was dating this guy and he was perfect and i don't even know what i did to tick him off but then all of the sudden he dumps me and i am so heartbroken!

Muhammad Haris Khan · Answer

love is not if you take it in correct way legaly....

hope the answer to the question.

? · Answer

Its not worth it...it will eat your insides out...

Anonymous · Answer

bc love is mean and cruel

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