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Problems With Trusting Women?
I'm 19, male and in college at the moment. I've had one serious relationship in my life, but she ended up playing me and being very teasy and dishonest towards the end of the relationship. From this experience, I've had a lot of problems trusting any other woman. Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of a female friends but I've built up walls to prevent myself from being hurt again (first gf hurt me in the end, but I'm over it now).
Even when I get female attention, I'm not particularly interested anymore in anything beyond physical interaction. I've had my fair share of experiences, but I really would like to settle down and find a good relationship.
However, the girls I hang around with now I've seen be taken advantage of by very dumb, fratty meat head guys. These girls just seem to make airhead decisions, making me trust women in general even less. However, they still are my friends and I try to help them out as much as I can.
It just seems like a waste of time find another girlfriend as I'm only gonna get hurt in the end.
Is there something wrong with me? I really can't get out of this mindset, but I feel as if a new relationship could really benefit me. However, I can't get it out of my head that the next girl is just gonna screw me over at some point, no matter how well the relationship is going.. Any advice is welcome..
2 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You're right not to trust them. Most of them are cheats and liars anyway. If you want a good relationship, just take your time and be very cautious. There are good women. Just not very many.
However, if you just want to get laid, well then you have no worries. Just think of it as you're hitting and running before they have a chance to, inevitably, break your heart anyway.
Source(s): Used to be the nice guy. You can thank the ladies for killing that in me. - 1 decade ago
"Even when I get female attention, I'm not particularly interested anymore in anything beyond physical interaction."
Well, it seems you've already seen what you need to. It seems you've already figured out that most all girls are really nothing more than a mindless piece of meat.
I've had my fair share of experiences, but I really would like to settle down and find a good relationship."
I hear ya! I've heard it said before, what are most women? Nothing more than a life support system for a pussy!
