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Relationship problems 3 months old baby involved... What is your advice?
If you think you may be able to try to help please message me or give me the ok to message you!
Thank you Eva but were not going to stop dating and our daughter is our number one concern. You don't deserve points if you are just going to post an opinion on someones question. I asked for advice not for someone to point out we have problems. Obviously we do or this question would have never been posted. And the problems you claim we have, ha honey your way off. None of what you said has anything to do with our problems!
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
What are the relationship problems specifically? It's kind of hard to give advice if you don't know the problem. In any event, whenever there is a problem the best thing to do is not make "You..." statements because they are very accusatory and put the person on the defensive. (For example, "You always go out and party and I have to stay home with the baby." Turn it around and start with "I..." like "I feel sad when I don't get to spend time with you.")
Hope this helps.
- 1 decade ago
I'm dealing with current relationship issues, my due dates in 11 days come 10 mins from now...and I am hoping I go soon. My boyfriend isn't respectful and there's a lot of other issues for stability, currently I live with my mum cause he won't stop partying for me or his daughter (Hopefully something can change soon!)...
But depending on the issues I may have some words of advice (I know my guy has his head in the clouds and dealing emotionally with it, but there's more than just that to me and him sadly)...go ahead and shoot me an email if you want to.
- christyLv 61 decade ago
I would be glad to help but im going to need more details, You can email me if you would like. Happy new years!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Wow, some people are awfully rude on here.
Well honey, don't know what's going on with you but keep your head high for that baby! Hold her tight and love on her as much as you can; it'll make you feel better!!
- LoveMyMommyLifeLv 71 decade ago
Both of you - stop thinking about yourselves and think about the baby.
Whatever that means for you.
Stop partying, stop dating, live alone if you have too, get gov't assistance if you have to, but work, provide, take care of your kid.
If either of you cant do that, then consider finding a more supportive legal guardian.
Add: First of all, it's Ava. Secondly, you didn't say what problem you have. You said RELATIONSHIP problems, with a baby involved. So Whatever the problem may be, 95% of the time it'll be solved when whatever adult involved puts themselves last and the baby first. That's advice. You want more specific? Then be specific. There's no need to get rude and defensive.