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Girlfriend troubles... please help!?

Well... to make a REALLY long story short; I got a txt from my gf that said: "I like Jon, hes really funny and sweet and cute but I love Drew"(her name for me). after that i got a txt that told me to ignore that message it wasn't for me. what do i do? i really like her.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    suck up the pain and get out becouse it is only the first sign that your going to get hurt worse trust me remove yourself from her

  • Mabe
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    how can you ignore a text like that? She sent it, she meant it, and then she changed her mind..she's playing you sir, to see what you will do, and if I were you I would ignore her and not text her back, ever.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think she just has a baby crush on this Jon guy. To be honest, lots of girls have moments where they see someone new come along and he's great, and it surprises them because they thought that their boyfriend was "the one". She's probably just a little conflicted right now.

    But she said she loves you... and for a girl that means that she chooses you over this Jon guy. Just don't take her for granted, show her that you DO care about her, and just be the person that she fell in love with. Things will work themselves out.

    But if you are worried, I suggest talking to her about it. Don't argue, dont whine. Just calmly ask her if her feelings for Jon are stronger than what she feels for you. Have an open mind, and actually LISTEN to what she says, because maybe there's something in your relationship that's been on her mind, but she's been too afriad or worried to bring it up.

    Source(s): personal experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    take your pants off and dance (:

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    thats a lie, she meant to send you the text

    PLEASE HELP ME!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She said she liked John, but she loves you. Just care and be there for her, spoil her, let her see your the better guy to go for.

    As she said, she loves you, she only likes him. To a girl thats a massive difference! I'm sure it'll all be okay, just get on with your life, and let her know who the better guy to go for is, let her know you love her, show her.

    Lifes too short to worry for too long.

  • 1 decade ago

    ask her if the text was for you, she obviously likes you hahahah

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    well if you said you like her, and she said she loves 'drew' - you, then you should tell her

  • 1 decade ago

    If you really like her, ignore the text.

    be on guard though.

  • 1 decade ago

    call her up and talk

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