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My Best Friend Is Dating My Ex Should I Still Be Her Friend?

Well I Loved This Guy For 3 Years Now We Went Out It Was Great I Dumped Him Recently For No Reason But Then I Started To Love Him Again But My Best Friend Went Out With Him When She Knew I Still Liked Him Loads And I Dunno If I Should Be Her Friend

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Did she ask you about it before she started dating him? If she did and you said it was okay, then no, you should still be her friend. If not, then she's not worth being friends with, to be honest. If she knows that you are still in love with him, then she is being selfish and a bad friend. Do I think you should forgive her? yes. Should you still be her best friend? no.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    It particularly relies on how so much you significance that fellowship. If you not ever desire to speak to her once more and do not brain her speakme (actual) trash to all your mutual peers, then opt for it. If you significance her as a buddy then do not reply any longer of his calls. She's hurting and you are digging the knife in deeper. Boys come and move however friendships and reputations final. Maybe it used to be her fault that he broke up along with her, however you do not need to rub it in her face. Maybe he's the freshest man you have had a risk with up to now and you do not desire to overlook the possibility, however what occurs after he dumps you otherwise you sell off him? Will you've got any peers left to show to whilst its over and you are hurting? I imply, I can move both manner in this one. I've noticeable peers do that and detect it used to be a enormous mistake and free peers completely, however I've additionally noticeable simply as soon as, one lady swear to not ever date her satisfactory buddy's ex after they broke up, after which wait one month and do it besides. She and the satisfactory buddy not speak however she and the ex simply received married 2 months in the past. So in her case it labored out, however then she used to be already 25. Its as much as you, simply attempt to believe longer term and take a look at to not be blinded through day desires.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You said it yourself - you dumped him. you gave up any claim you might have had on him. Your best friend is not violating anything by going out with your EX. BF.

    next time give it a bit more thought before you dump someone for no reqson!!!(or even for good reason)

  • 1 decade ago

    Dude, do not let a guy get in the way of your friendship!! Odds are you are not going to spend the rest of your life with him, and neither is your friend! Find a new guy because believe me there are plenty!

  • Alison
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    First of all, why'd you dump him? Secondly, I think you should tell her you feel uncomfortable that shes going out with an ex you still love. If she doesn't care and still goes out with him, then she's not being very considerate for your feelings.

  • 1 decade ago

    I wouldn't be her friend anymore. That's a low blow. But to each their own.

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