Did you ever have trouble talking? (MtF)?

I know exactly what you are saying. I was horrified about my voice changing, too. Although I had a very wide singing range, my speaking voice was always pitched somewhat androgynous, even as a child. As the time came that I knew my voice was going to change, I fought every way that I could to try to keep the upper range accessible in my voice. As my voice changed, it settled into a rather high, almost androgynous tenor range, but I still had access to the highest range (like a modern countertenor, just without the formal training). Whenever I would get nervous, my pitch would tend to rise and I didn't have proper control of using my head resonance so it would sound strange at times. This created some interesting problems, especially while in the military where I was taken for a woman when speaking on the telephone or radio a good 75% to 80% of the time without trying, and was usually the subject of a lot of kidding on the part of the other people that I worked with.

Shortly after I began my transition, I started studying voice (more as an accident when I stumbled into a choir and they discovered that I could sing in the alto section quite comfortably). The classical training that I received sure helped develop vocal muscles and technique that make it almost impossible for me to sound like a man now.

I was lucky, I was always feminine in voice. I was always taken for female on the phone. As soon as I transitioned every one took me for female.

When I went to a Trans group I introduced myself with my male name and someones first thought (she told me later) was "this poor girl will never pass as male"

the only thing i'm having trouble with is getting you to hook up with me, and i still don't buy that boring trans girl crap either, you know you're hot