Which is more important? Honoring Parents or Keeping Family in tact?

I would never live away from my hubby to care for my parents. They would be moved closer to us if that is what needed to happen, an agency would be brought in to help them or find another solution. I would never sacrifice my marriage for my parents and they wouldn't want me to do that.

It isn't an either or situation. It is a situation that you all need to be working on together.

Sheesh americans are spoiled. Your parents and husband should all be together. Then you wouldn't have to divide yourself. And if your husband loved you he would let you make room for your parents in your home.

See about a Visiting nurse or a nursing home. Check in frequently though. I personally don't trust nursing homes but if you keep close watch they tend to treat your family better.

I would love to have my parents with me until the last day they stop breathing.

thats tough well if your parents were good parents then i say stay with them becuase they would stay for you. but then again i dont have husband so i dont really understand the cond their yet. i would stay for my parents