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I'm a Sagittarius, why do i keep hurting everyone's feelings?
I literally can't help it, i get bored too easily, if people don't amuse me, i just move on from them and that really hurts them. I'm too careless about what comes out of my mouth, if someone is not interesting, to me, they don't exist. Is this normal for a Sag? And how do i stop being like this? :s
6 Answers
- Starry Pluto ॐLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Very normal. Not so normal that one would admit it. So kudos to you. If you are ready for deeper, more meaningful relationships with people then you have to stop being so self-centered. That is where this stems from. You have to realize you are not the most interesting person in the world and the world doesn't revolve around just your ideas of entertainment.
B/C the truth of the mattes is YOU ARE hurting people and that's not cool! A deeper understanding of yourself and the effect your actions/words have on people is what you do first. YOu need to really sit down and think about all the times you have hurt someone, for no reason other than you were bored and how painful that might have been for them. I'm not saying guilt yourself, but really understand how horrible this behavior is.
- Anonymous5 years ago
i'm a pisces, february 21st! anyway, for me, im a more romantic type of person, so do something really really sweet for her. maybe a walk on the beach at sunset? a picnic in a park? do something out of the ordinary for her. if you always go for dinner and a movie on dates, spice it up a little bit. if she doesn't know how you feel, just come out and tell her. any girl regardless of sign loves to be flattered. tell her over and over again how much you love her, how pretty she is, or things about her you love. and don't worry, i've heard that sags and pisces are fine for each other, but some of the time, they create more of a friend vibe. but as you know, friendship can always take that one step forward. good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
One thing sagittarius need to learn is to tone down their bluntness. They hurt others feelings because they can't help but talk talk talk. If you keep your mouth shut for like 10 minutes this would be good practice for you guys. Talking too much without thinking causes you to hurt other peoples feeling. If you talk less and think before opening your mouth, then this won't happen.
Source(s): Leo - The GypsyLv 51 decade ago
Sagittarians are just blunt they totally dont mean to hurt (they are generally friendly and dont like unhappy situations) but they just kinda blurt what is on their mind. I think tactless is the word. i have a sagittarius rising and when i meet someone i make jokes about them (harmless ones to thier face) i also make jokes about my own problems or faults, its just meant to be lighthearted but some people think youre serious and it makes them feel bad (it makes me sad when i realize ive hurt someones feelings). I also know what you mean about the short attention span thing (personally to an extent, im like that with some things) but i have a sagittarius friend and we used to hang out all the time but when hes busy with something else (more important) he would totally blow me off CONSTANTLY and it started really bugging me (we havent hung out in a while)
- 1 decade ago
No one should use their astrology sign as a way of blaming or looking for an excuse. If you're aware of this shortcoming, that's the recognition that will help you do something about it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
soon you won't have any friends......you won't have to worry about hurting any ones feelings because no one will care about you...