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He is not letting me go!?

So theres this guy he likes/loves me he says both..?

He's trying to convince me to say yes to him to go out with him...but i can't because i havee had my heartbroken oncee beforee by a guy and im suree he will do the same like they say all guys are the same..? how do i make him understand he is not ready to listen to anything i say i have told him i do not think of him in that way i just think of him as a friend and i will not have any feelings for him, he keeps on telling me to give him a chancee and i will have feelings for him

what do i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Hi Sweetheart,

    As soon as you see him approaching you, walk away. If you have friends you can hang with while he may be around, hang with them. Now he's harassing you and that's illegal, he's gone too far.

    He's proven he cannot handle just being friends anymore so unfortunately you'll need to end the friendship also. Sorry Honey, but once they cross the friendship line they'll always hope for more no matter what they tell you or what you tell him. He'll always hope and push for more, he's proven this. Just take it one day at a time for now Hon. You will need to be very stubborn with yourself and him Sweetheart to get your point across because as long as you speak to him, in his mind there will always be hope. If this doesn't work you'll need to take more drastic measures. I'm praying for you Hon, ask God to give you the strength to do this and He will. You are stronger than you think ;).

    Love and Big Hugs

    Marie

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