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He cut himself for me?

So there is this guy , he says he likes me? then few weeks later he says he is in love with me? , he asked me out i rejected him , he took my numbe of one of my friends and he callsme everyday he is some kind of physco after me , he says if i dated anyone he would literally go physical with them (beat the f*ck into him) . Today i talked to him for like 30 mins i said i have to go , so i hung up, he called me back after 5 mins and said

him: 'btw i forgot to tell you something'

me: 'what?'

him: 'i wrote a 'T' (my initial) on my arm..with a...knife,'

me: 'WHAT? What for?!'

him: 'For you'

me: 'What you mean?

him: 'To show i would go to any extent i have to to have you'

me: 'have you gone mad?'

him: 'yeahh!..for you! im madly in love with you!'

me: .....

What does all this show? :/

Whats he trying to prove? :/

Does he really love me? :/

P.S. thee reason i don't want to sate him because im done with guys ; i'vee had such a bad experience , that i feel scared to have feelings for a guy again :/

Please help? :/

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  • Marc M
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    It shows that he's in need of serious psychological help, from a licensed, trained professional. Harming yourself (or threatening to harm others) is never appropriate, no matter the depth of your feelings, and does not indicate a mature love. You should stay away from this nut job, and strongly encourage him (or his parent/guardian) to get the help that he needs. You don't want to end up as a tragic story on your local news...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Obviously the boy has some serious issues. It is NOT ok to cut yourself, threaten physical harm or obsessively call someone. I would stay away from the guy. Unless you want to date him (which I would say is a very bad idea) then cut off all contact with him. For obsessive people, every time you communicate, they take it as a sign that you feel the same way they do. It is hard to get rid of people like that, but in the end it is better for you and for him.

    Source(s): Personal experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Get a restraining order or tell an adult about this; sounds like a serious/scary situation; Stay away from him!

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to stay away from him. Girl pay attention to the signs. This one is crazy leave him alone.

  • 1 decade ago

    Stay away from this boy .....he is bad news

    and if he wants to hurt himself every time you say no to him that is not your problem ....so dont feel guilty about this

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    God you can tell schools out the TROLLS are eating the site alive.

  • Mindy
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I wouldn't be concerned if he loves you or not. I'd get a restraining order on this nutcase.

  • 1 decade ago

    it is definitely unhealthy for him to be cutting himself , you should try to get him so mental help and also be very clear that you do not like him and that he is taking this too far.

  • 1 decade ago

    Oh my, this guy sounds crazy. I wouldn't get with him, he'll end up killing you.

  • xK
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    It means he's mentally disturbed and you definitely should avoid him.

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