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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 10 years ago

Ladies? how would you feel if the guy you were dating was dating someone else?

technically he is still single and he does not have an official girlfriend.

how would you feel about it? what if you felt like he was your perfect match? would you give up on him, or would you pursue him harder knowing that you have competition.

I will pick the best answer thank you for your opinions

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    well it depends how often you go on dates and what the dates are like. if u have someone ur seeing, make it clear to her that you want to go on dates with others as well and she is free to do the same. if she wants something more serious, its up to you to figure out if u wanna just b with her or to just drop her

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Personally? I only date seriously - I've never dated casually and don't see the point in it. So if the guy I was interested in wasn't interested enough in me to see only me, I'd thank him for the date and not see him again, at least not as a potential boyfriend.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    i just be rational about it. ur in the dating stage, theres no commitment involve. i sort of treat dating as "friends w/ benefits" stage b/c u r trying to get to them w/o the sex. i always tell a guy from the start when im dating that its totally fine they date other chicks but i just dont waste time w/ guys who play mindgames or has a regular prob of inflexibility. i think its unfair for a guy to go shoe shopping and not try every pair he might be interested in. plus jealousy is petty business.

  • 10 years ago

    If I didn't think me and him were going to get anymore serious with each other, and if I was okay with that, then I wouldn't get too upset if he was dating someone else too.

    If I had feelings for him though and really liked him, I would be upset and try talking to him about it.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I guess i would be friends, If he had things in common, I would take my sweet time knowing them as friends even if it's years of being friends. He could change at anytime. Why would i try to pursue him.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Well what I would do is tell him my honest feelings towards him and then once he knows that and see his reaction and if he likes you back then go for it if he acts weird then give up! Hopes that helps! :D

  • 10 years ago

    If I loved him I would be mad for a while but then get over it :) help with mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnEzE...

  • 10 years ago

    I wouls still like him n all but drop hints but yea....

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