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LGBT: What would you do in this situation?

I'm an open gay guy, and I've got a guy in my class who annoys the crap out of me. He deliberately refers to me as a women, or at least half a man. I'm not feminine or flaming or anything, about 90% of the people I meet even think I'm straight. Even if I was feminine it wouldn't make me any less of a man, but that aside.

It goes like this. When I sit with some female classmates and he walks over for a talk, he says 'good day ladies'. He throws a big sarcastic smile at me. No 'sorry, just joking' or whatever. Now if he were a good friend of mine, I'd be fine with it. But he's not, he's just a classmate. Now I'm at the point that if he does that one more time, he's gonna get it.

I've got a huge antipathy against ignorant, stubborn people like this. Normally I just let things like this go, but he's annoying the crap outta me and he's gonna be in the same class for the next year.

I was just wondering what you would do in a situation like this. Would you just let it go, give him a piece of your mind, or even get physical and smack him one? Just wondering.

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  • Kacie
    Lv 5
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I would give him a piece of mind maybe even throw him back at him. I bet he is gay, and that is why he keeps on calling you a lady. You should just respond with a "I know you want me buddy, so you can quit the act." :)

  • 7 years ago

    I already thought ''give him one'' before reading the end of your question.

    Seriously, in this case, - smack his face in.

    He's either severely closeted or thinks he's being highly amusing.

  • Cj
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    I would give him a piece of my mind and then smack him if he still didn't get the picture lol

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Just come back at him with something snarky. Like something about him wanting you or whatever. I'm sure it will shut him up. But don't get violent.

  • 10 years ago

    Drama only makes things worse. Ignore him.

    He clearly has nothing better to do.

  • 6 years ago

    I'll bet he's gay himself. Lol. Throw a smart-*** comment back.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    every time he would call me a girl i would give him a smart A$$ remark and embarrass him in front of the rest of the class. like "no i am not a girl, but even if i was my penis would still be bigger than yours...folded in half."

  • 10 years ago

    if it continues just talk to him and tell him how u feel about his jokes. if he makes it worse then forget the mind and tell an adult. if they do nothing then use ur fist.

  • 10 years ago

    Ignore him

  • Dass
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    The words "f*ck off" can go a long way.

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