Pre-college anxiety compared to when you actually move to college?

Hi Chiralty,

I totally understand where you're coming from. Before I left for college I was freaking out and having tons of anxiety. Trust me, it's totally normal. To put things into perspective, this a big change (it might even be the biggest one of your life so far) so if you didn't feel even a little nervous about it, that would be weird. :)

College is an incredible time - you get all the benefits of being kid without any of the responsibilities of being an adult. It's a great time to meet your best friends, study things that interest YOU (as opposed to having to take classes that were predecided for you in high school) and explore a new city. That's what happened to me in college and it was such an amazing time.

And the good news is, no matter where you are in the world, your home will always be your home. :)

Good luck and I know you will have lots of fun!

I just graduated from college, and let me tell you, it will get better. I had some friends that let their homesickness get the better of them. They went home every weekend they could. And they missed out on a lot of fun. Even if you're not a partier or drinker, that's okay; there's still a lot to do and a lot of fun people to meet.

When I left for school, I moved about 5 hours from my home. It was nerve-wrecking. I almost didn't want to go. Looking back, I'm so glad I did. It allowed me to experience so much, meet friends I'll have forever, it's where I met my wife, and I wouldn't change a thing. It's scary; I'm not saying it isn't. But it'll be the best years of your life, and anyone who says that high school is where you find out who you really are obviously never went to college.

Just relax. And enjoy every minute of the experience. It'll be gone before you know it. Trust me, I know.

My daughter was sooo ready for college. She was mature, an excellent student and had no fear of living in a dorm. and she still had a mini melt down the night before I left (I drove her to college and spent a couple of days there)

Cold feet is normal.

There will be a lot going on when you get to campus. Try to attend all meetings and go to all freshman functions.

Get into a routine as soon as classes start. get up at the same time. figure when you will eat- do laundry. Make a schedule every week-what needs to get done and by when. When my daughter is over loaded with school work, she even makes a list for each day-what needs to get done. She schedules in time to eat and time with friends too. Stay organized and you will have an easier time with school work. Be sure to visit the school's tutoring center the first week of classes. All colleges have one for a good reason, all students need some help at some point. don't wait for your grades to drop to go there.

Read all the stuff you get. There are going to be many clubs and organization to join. Most campus' have good and cheap entertainment going on.

And before you know it, it is Thanksgiving break.

Do not worry! Actually college is better than school.When you get married you have to leave your parent's house than what you do? College is the best place to have good friends! There will be enough students like you.You can exchange your experiences of life with others.You can go back to your home in holidays! ICollege is a stepping stone to further your carrer.Do not grudge and grumble but be enthusiastic! I am sure you will enjoy your college life after some time.Have a blast!

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