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am i dumb for liking her?

recently there's this girl at work that has me thinking too much. a few weeks ago she saw that i needed help, and she rushed to ask me if i needed help, it's as if she appeared from nowhere and asked me if she could help...i occasionally went up to her and said hi and tried to make eye contact. is it dumb for me to start liking her more then i did before she helped me? she seems like a great person, but i don't want to seem like an idiot who likes someone just because they helped me out when i needed it. my sister said to go for it because the girl went out of her way to help me out, but im not sure yet. thanks for the answers in advance.

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  • 9 years ago
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    Hey Carlos.

    Im looking at this from the girl's perspective and you do have a point about coming on too strong. I mean obviously she is a nice girl you can totally like her. Maybe just for now hide how much you like her until you get to know her better. Then as you get to know her personality etc, ask her if she wants to grab a coffee, or eat together on lunch break, or if she knows a new place to find a good slice of pizza. Anyway don't be nervous. be her friend first, I wouldn't want a guy to tell me he really likes me after he just met me, but it wouldn't hurt to show her you're interested. I mean after all what's really going on in a girls head :P Sometimes I don't even know...

    Good luck Man! :)

    Source(s): moi
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Aw, I think that's really sweet. How well do you know her? I'd try and get to know her a little first then maybe ask her out if she seems like she's interested after knowing her better, only because you don't want it to be awkward in the workplace.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It's usually not a good idea to go after a girl that works with you man. Especially if things don't work out. I'd say steer clear.

    Source(s): expert
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Nahhhhh man what's wrong with you. Go for it. I went out with a girl because she brushed me. Start talking to her and ask her out.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    If your attracted to her and she seems like a nice person then give a shot.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Feelings are never dumb because you can't really control them.

    I agree with your sister ^^

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