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am i dumb for liking her?

recently there's this girl at work that has me thinking too much. a few weeks ago she saw that i needed help, and she rushed to ask me if i needed help, it's as if she appeared from nowhere and asked me if she could help...i occasionally went up to her and said hi and tried to make eye contact. is it dumb for me to start liking her more then i did before she helped me? she seems like a great person, but i don't want to seem like an idiot who likes someone just because they helped me out when i needed it. my sister said to go for it because the girl went out of her way to help me out, but im not sure yet. thanks for the answers in advance.

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  • 9 years ago
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    No there isn't nothing wrong with liking her. You can't help who you like. It just happens. I say go for it because maybe there's a chance she likes you to.

  • 9 years ago

    You're not dumb for that at all. I'd bet 97% of the whole world population has had about the same scenario. It's not like you can control your feelings not matter how hard you try, you either like someone or you don't. You'll never know until you try, but if you don't talk to her that much then you should probably get to know her a little better before asking her out.

  • 9 years ago

    plain and simple, you're not dumb for liking anyone, just dont read too much into what happened.give it time and be friendly and see what happens!

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    9 years ago

    No, you're not dumb for liking her.

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