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***Can anyone calm me down with this relationship question***?

Ok, so I've been talking/dating a guy for almost 2 months, but we decided to wait to become official till after break. I texted him tonight and he told me he had went out to eat with a friend and they were currently watching a movie, I said sorry for interrupting he said I wasn't interrupting and proceeded to ask me about my day, and I once again said well I'll let you have fun and he said he liked talking to me and to stop worrying. Then I see on facebook he was tagged with a girl that he went to prom with 2 years ago and she had a little heart after the movie name. Am I crazy to be jealous? I really like him, but the fact that I'm not his girlfriend freaks me out that he may still be hooking up with her since it's taking him like 30 minutes to respond to each text, could it be that he's making out with her? AHH sorry I sound like a lunatic.

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  • 9 years ago
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    I'm kind of confused on the heart thing. She had a little heart after the movie name? What was the picture of and how old is the picture? When and where was it taken? I'm confused. Anyways, I can tell you I definitely don't think he is making out with that girl while texting you, that I can be sure of. He's probably taking a long time to text you back because he is watching a movie. Besides, if he was making out with that girl, he would never be texting you while he was doing it. And if you think he's doing it to not get you hyped about it, I see no reason he should be asking you about your day, telling you he likes talking to you and not to worry, and pretty much encouraging you to talk to him. Also, I don't think she would be happy to see him texting.

    Even though you guys are not official yet, it doesn't mean he has zero obligation towards you. You guys are pretty much announcing it after break, I highly doubt he would promise such a thing if he wanted to be with someone else. Plus, it was a mutual decision to make it "official" after break, so it's not like he had some plan to make out with a bunch of girls before becoming official. That's absurd. Besides the whole point of not cheating on someone in an official relationship is to not hurt the other person and make them want to break up. If he chose to make out with this girl just because he wasn't official with you, then that is negating the whole point to not cheating. Anyone with a capable IQ would know it would have the same effect regardless of being official or not: You would be hurt, and probably not want to be with him.

    Anyways, break is almost over, and then you can go official and stop worrying. You aren't a lunatic and you aren't crazy to be jealous. This is a natural emotion all of us humans have (male or female). We just simply have to learn to slow down, stop, take control, and think about the situation rationally. Sometimes it takes a total stranger on Yahoo Answers to do that for you (or to help you do that anyways).

    I hope I've helped. :)

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It's okay, the guy I like takes up to 8 hours- 1 day to respond back =_=

    well if he says to not worry then, don't because if you keep being paranoid he'll get the idea that you don't trust him to hang with other female friends. He'll then probably assume you're clingy and find someone else.

    So don't worry!!! Do something to keep your mind off of him! (for me it's answering random questions on yahoo answers:D)

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Is this just right now??!! ur not a lunatic !! cmon obviously this guys a jerk hmmm i would hav to say let this guy loose for 2 days see if he ttext u back or misses u? calm down its gonna b ok

  • 9 years ago

    Chill out. You're getting paranoid. Take him at his word unless evidence proves otherwise. Enjoy the relationship :0)

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    5 years ago

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