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No sex until a relationship with gay dating?

I've dated numerous guys and have held off on sex for at least 2-5 dates.

After we do the deed, they don't want to date anymore.

Is there some unwritten rule for gay dating that you can't have sex until you're officially boyfriends?

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  • 9 years ago
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    When I came out back in the 1970's, the rule was more like 'No dating until we've had sex.' If you were a lousy lay, that was the end of it. If you were good, they might come back for more and actually start dating.

    @Shapoor - I was trying to put that message in less harsh terms, but maybe the blunt approach is best.

  • 9 years ago

    No. Those guys simply were only interested in sex

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe you just suck at sex...oops bad choice of words...Dudes want to get laid..weather its a guy or a girl....get used to it and stop picking your new boyfriend up at the port authority....just sayin...

  • 9 years ago

    those guys just wanna have sex, thye dont care if they hurt you all they want is to get laid

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