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Does this make me gay?

I've been recently struggling with my sexuality for quite some time now, I have been always off minded about alotta things "Saying" I like this girl and i like that girl. But when it came to dating girls.....they never lasted long and I never ...really had feelings I guess for any of them. Then I noticed....I kinda get arroused when I see a man's thing and sometimes by my own. I even have dreams, once in a great while I'll dream of me kissing a girl but most of the time its the other way. I have been through 5 girlfriends and not even one I had true feelings for I just force them on it feels like by repeating I like you to them.

Update:

By mine I mean I will actually start watching it...umm get extended....and the sometimes I invision....a guy .

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    If you're emotionally or sexually attracted to guys, you're gay.

    that's the only way you could be gay so yeah.

    mine please?

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  • 9 years ago

    I would like to talk to you about this more. My email is whiteboymdew@yahoo.com I think I could help out I have been struggling with my sexuality for a longtime too. I'm 18 and I can understand how you are feeling. Basically what it comes down do is when you watch porn with a female and a male who are you most attractive to, the man or the woman. That will give you your answer.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You just may have not met the right girl yet. Plus, it is natural, but not talked about, for a man to be turned on by another man. You should not have to worry about putting a label on yourself, because there will be plenty of other people in the world to do that for you. You should just look for the person you like and like them. Look for a person that makes you happy; it should not matter if they are a man or a woman.

  • 9 years ago

    Well if you get aroused by women as well, then you may be bisexual. Bisexuality doesn't mean that you have to be attracted to both genders equally either. You may have a preference for one over the other. :)

    If women don't do anything for you at all, then you may be gay. And that's perfectly fine as well. Straight, bi, or gay, you are still the same person before you realized this. Love yourself regardless of whomever you are attracted to. That's the most important thing.

    Source(s): Experience and knowledge.
  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    The only thing that I found off in this is "I kinda get aroused by sometimes seeing my own". :)

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    possible but can change.if need help,I can give help references.

    Source(s): Exodusintl.org & Narth.com/home page
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