How hard is it to get pregnant?

You did not make any mention about your menstrual cycle - at least whether it is regular or irregular.

If your cycle is REGULAR = then you already crossed the half-way mark.

Next you must find out, when exactly your ovaries releases the ovum (using the Ovulation Test Kits).

I don't believe in the Ovulation calender or computer determination.

Unprotected sex on the day of ovulation and the following day yields better result.

At the same time, presumably my protocol, will come in handy for your conception:

1. Determine your day of ovulation using Ovulation Test Kits. In Ladies with REGULAR CYCLE You need to test from the 10th to 18th day of your cycle. (First day of bleeding is the First day of the cycle).

2. Unprotected sex on the day or on the eve or one day after ovulation will yield good result. So calm down and get yourself composed. Any form of STRESS will get you away from your goal.

- Plan a vacation, far away from the madding crowd, coinciding with your ovulation period. Suggest natural water fall or mountainous resort.

3. Get your hubby's seminal fluid examined by a reputable laboratory. Your hubby needs three days of sexual absenteeism (including masturbation) for the test. Since spermatozoa are easily perishable outside the reproductive system, your hubby has to go the laboratory, masturbate and ejaculate into the sterile container and hand over then and there, for the examination.

- Plus some fine tips below, to follow:

i. Determine your ovulation day, using the Ovulation kit.

ii. Coincide unprotected sex to the Ovulation (Eve / on the very day of ovulation / the very following day after ovulation ). Ovum released can survive only for 24 hours.

iii. Plenty of love making / foreplay prior to the actual act, because that will well lubricate your reproductive tract and remove the Vaginal acidity. Vaginal acidity can destroy the spermatozoa.

iv. Elevate your Pelvis, with a pillow, at least prior to ejaculation. . Missionary position with your legs on your hubby's shoulder. This will provide a deep penetration and deposition of semen deep inside the vagina, almost at the lips of the cervix and to ensure the smooth flowing of semen into the cervix, uterus and fallopian tubes.

v. Try to reach climax/female orgasm at the time of ejaculation, so that your cervix will literally suck in all the ejaculatory fluid. For completion sake, I had given the additional benefits of female orgasm below

a. If your orgasm is always late or your hubby is having premature ejaculation, begin the sex in Reverse missionary (with you on the top).

b.Reverse Missionary aids in two ways-

Firstly the women will attain orgasm earlier because of the stimulation of G spot

Secondly it also delays the premature ejaculation

Female Orgasm keeps the woman lying down for some time. This resting, passively retaining sperm and increasing her probability of conception. . British biologists, Robin Baker and Mark Bellis team counted sperm from over 300 instances of human copulation and found that a woman climaxes any time between a minute before to 45 minutes after her lover ejaculates, retains significantly more sperm (In non orgasmic, she hardly retain any sperm)..

vi. Try to lie on your back for at least 4 to 5 hours after sex, so that even the slow-moving or the late comer spermatozoa too will find the way into the female reproductive system.

vii. Strictly no washing, immediately after sex, especially on or around the day of ovulation.

Last but not the least, Sincere Prayers to the Almighty.

It doesn't matter if you have sex every day or every 2-3 days. Each cycle you have only one shot, ovulation. If you have sex every 1-2-3 days you can be sure there is always viable sperm in your body when the egg is released. That gives about 20% chance of pregnancy.

When a couple conceives exactly can be very different, but the average time it takes is 6-12 months of actively trying. It took us about 2 years.

If you try to much, you won't get pregnant, you need to study your ovulation and period, you can find a calendar that does this for you online. It'll tell you when the best time to have sex to get pregnant i even found one that suggested days to try to have either boy or girl

Wait one month and than take a pregnancy test.

It really depends if you conceived or not.

It really doesnt matter how much you have sex.

Its weather the egg has reached the sperm

it differs depending on the people, it could only take 1 try or it could take 100 tries.

there is no correct answer to that or even an estimate, it depends on your body and his! If you both are able to have kids, it shouldnt take more than a month, but every situation is different, theres just no knowing!

I'm sure it will not be long, maybe after a week or 2 just to be safe

It depends on what you're having sex with.