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Is it possible to have a crush on a guy when your in a realationship?
I have been going out with this guy for just over a month and i honestly feel like i love him and at the moment i want to be with him but at the same time i think i have a crush on one of his mates friends and as much as i love the guy im with i feel like if i had the opportunity i would cheat on him for this other guy. i feel like a horrible girlfriend but i cant lie to myself and say i dont have feelings for this other guy but i cant tell if they are strong enough to through away the good relationship im in.
im just looking for some advice :) thanks
Thank you all so much for you input :)
7 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
well yea same thing happened to me. but dont cheat that would just be horrible. put yourself in your boyfriends shoes and see how much that would hurt. its ok for you to have feelings for other people....well no its not if youre in a relationship lol but just make sure to forget about the other guy dont ruin your reputation with your boyfriend
- Anonymous9 years ago
you haven't been in a relationship for very long, its extremely unlikely that you love him, you are probably in your "honeymoon phase" where everything is awesome and you dint have problems yet. You can have a crush on someone anytime and its not really your choice, what you have to do is decide who you like more, and do what your heart tells you, don't worry about hurting them you should come first but don't string them both along make up your mind and be honest.
- 9 years ago
well its very difficult to decide who is the right person, you may be with this guy feeling secured in relation that is the reason you are able to appreciate the other better attributes of his mates. I would suggest better to think about good things about the guy you love him and also try to work it together in case you want to change anything in him.
Being together is the success key for any relation.
-Vishal
- 9 years ago
You should cheat on him. Then on the other guy. Then on every test. And every game. Cheating is the best thing anyone can every do, so go ahead and have a good time!
- 9 years ago
if you feel youre going to cheat on him. BREAK UP WITH HIM. cheating is never okay and with his best friend!! girl, break up get your morals sorted before you get into another relationship
- 9 years ago
Maybe you just want to cheat on your boyfriend because you feel "trapped". Please don't cheat on him tho, and if you do, don't get caught. Sometimes, cheating helps realize what you have now.
