How to be aggressive and not passive?

believe in yourself. get to know yourself and who you are; what you stand for; what you believe in.

be strong and confident.

know that it is ok to be vulnerable; we are all vulnerable, that's what makes us human. embrace you're vulnerability.

understand that 9 times out of 10 other people are shy on the inside too. they too are unsure what to say, how people will react to them and how they will be judged. we could go through life worrying about the what if's, but it wouldn't do us much good. learn to let go of anxiety.

laugh more. laugh at yourself and laugh with others. and smile more. people are attracted to other people that smile.

I hope that this helps! :)

Eat lot of raw meat. Learn how to cook one on youtube.

one thing *** I ** heard that helped was : the first time is the hardest . ( and they 're right ) .