GIRLS ANG GUYS! advice please? :)?

You are doing the right thing by ending it.. when it gets to that stage where every little thing just drives you nuts, it's time to call it a day! I can understand your reasons for not wanting to lose other friendships, but I think if you end this well, and treat him nicely and kindly, then, even if he takes it REALLY badly, people will see you have treated him with respect and will stay friends with you. If you can end this relationship and STILL maintain a friendship with him, so much the better, but, in reality, that hardly ever happens. It sounds like he is still really attached to you, so he will be hurt, but you are not responsible for him. You just have to end it as nicely as you can, and that is that. You can't hang onto a relationship that bores you JUST because it is a possible pathway to something better (I'm talking about the friends friend now) So, you should end it, maybe there is a slim chance you can still get to see the other guy, but if not, there are lots more out there!

Sorry, maybe I was too blunt with the previous question.

Firstly, how can anybody try to answer your question without judging you? Impossible.

You say that you have commitment issues - you clearly don't know what commitment issues are because you ask 'should I stay with him.. or let him go and find someone else.' As if its like letting that t-shirt go and finding another one. Do you just want a bf for the sake of having a bf because it that's the case then of course you will be uncomfortable with somebody trying to hug and kiss you - you will see this as being too clingy.

You're only sixteen so you're not likely to marry and spend the rest of your life with someone you are with now but that is no reason to date someone to get yourself more friends or get closer to another boy. You date to get experience of other people and learn about yourself. So when you finish with this unfortunate guy, try to wait out and find somebody you have proper feelings for - not someone that is merely 'sweet and nice' - you'll learn more about yourself and life that way.

This 'relationship' will only teach him about girls like you and how messed up they can be. Sorry to be harsh but that's the only positive he will get from it.

Please, really try talking to him, you don't need to change him but just really try being honest. Because honesty is the best thing in the world and can achieve so much. Just try to get straight down to the point with him and if he is still being a problem well than I guess the only thing to do is move on from him :'(

Anyway, with this other guy you like, I think it will leave your current boyfriend shattered if you moved straight on to him so give it some time before you move on to another guy if you breakup with your current boyfriend. Also just follow your heart <3

I hope I've been helpful :)

No offence but you seem more concerned with your friends rather than him and the relationship.

anyway I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and a half and things she does sometimes annoy me, that's normal. Perhaps you do have commitment issues but then again everyone does. It doesn't matter but what does matter is how YOU feel about HIM and him alone, think about how much you like him, don't think about how you don't want to lose friends think about you and him alone.

with that said if you do like him then you need to cut those feelings you have with this other guy off, it will ruin relationships things like that.

Hi , i have been in the position before , i would personally work things out with this boyfriend of yours, your saying he is really nice , why not let down the barrier and allow yourself to build your feelings with him :)

Wen i answer you for this question of yours ,don't feel bad..You first ask yourself are you really in love with this boyfriend of yours wth whom u were from past 3 months..if you were really in love with him,you would not have felt like meeting his friend, whom you feel like seeing again and need to have a contact with..Just make it clear with yourself , that whom you are in love with and who you wants.

you're basically using him for the people he he knows. Make your own friends and let this guy go.

if you feel like you dont wana be with him, then dont be with him. stop wasting your time and stop making him think hes not wasting his. just end it, be a good person and stop using him.