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SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT MY BOYFRIENDS PAST??? PLZZZ HELP I BEG YOU. 10 PTS FASTEST ANSWER AND GOOD ADVICE?
WE ARE FRESHMEN ( im 14 and hes 15)Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about almost a month now, Ive heard his stories about his past about him and a girl in the school bathroom doing it with eachother, He was quiet when i asked him about that and couldnt give me an answer.
I heard another story and he told me about it when i asked and he said that he had sex with a girl in the bathroom at this store. and she was black. Im not racist because im black too and hes white. And we love eachother very much but i dont know how to get over his past. It makes me sick but i really love him. We kiss thats all and he knows that im not losing my virginity or anything too far with him and he understands that.
I just cant get over that fact that he did it with possibly 2 girls ( 1 he admitted & he was stupid for doing) and i feel disgusted when we makeout w/ tounge really wild and all now like i dont feel like kissing him or anything now because im a clean girl and i dont wanna catch nothing because i dont know if he was kissing those other girls and they were ho3s having nasty diseases especially like mono or herpes etc. I probably wont kiss him anymore for a few days. iThis is getting to me :(
HOW DO I GET OVER HIS PAST?? ughh ive talked to him about it but i cant keep talking to him about it. I dont want to break up with him because i really love him. OMGG
Thank you soo much for your help. God bless your heart.
4 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
Girl, don't worry about his past. c:
If he's dating you now, he's over all those other girls, and if he really liked you then he would have no problem with you not wanting to do that kind of stuff.!
I hope you get over his past soon, dear. Just because he's not a virgin, doesn't mean you don't have to be.
- 9 years ago
You amy not have a history, but some people do, and you cannot change that. If he had sex with other girls before he met you, that is what he did.
You need to focus on what you want from the relationship, if you cannot move on from that, you are not ready for life, let alone a relationship. Ups and downs happen throughout life and we just have to soldier on and be strong.
I feel that you are too young to be so Intimately involved and not mentally ready, and in my view you should not per sue this.
You are a kid, enjoy life, enjoy the pleasure of being a child, because when life really hits you, you are in for a roller-coaster. Concentrate on your studies that will ultimately get you ahead in life, not your love life.
- 9 years ago
Well there is no way to 'get over it' I would be pretty upset too and I respect that your a clean girl and that your smart enough not to do it with him right away. If your so worried you can ask him to get tested to see if he has anything bad. I wish you the best of luck!
- RobLv 49 years ago
Everyone has a past and you can't change that. You have to decide for yourself if you're going to let it affect your relationship (other than extreme situations it shouldn't) or if you have to move on.
