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Ladies what are your thoughts on this?

Back story:

My wife's best friend is extremely flirty with any and all guys she meets. It is so obvious that I almost feel embarrassed for her when we all hang out and she hangs all over our other friends who are guys, she even acts flirty towards me which has always been weird. My wife has never been concerned with her behavior and told me it was because her bf was closer with her older brother than to her sisters and identifies more with men then with other girls but my wife grew up with 3 brothers and doesn't flirt with every guy she sees, she never did even when we were just friends. My wife is a very attractive and social person while her best friend is social but not nearly as attractive looking.i also want to point out that she (the best friend) is a nice person and doesn't just hook up with guys or try to actually pick them up- just annoying flirty.

I think the reason she is so flirty is because it is her way of drawing attention to herself possibly because she knew guys were more incline to be attracted to my wife as they have been best friend since 5th grade and have done everything/go everywhere together. Do you think that could be a reason for her acting this way or do you think it is just because she grew up closer to her brother?? Or is there some other reason a girl would act this way?

Update:

Thanks for answering!

Update 2:

Okay so I'll add that she doesn't get all touchy or smily when she talks to other women, just guys.

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  • 9 years ago
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    When a girl is insecure, they feel like they need to be the center of attention a lot of times to feel wanted and attractive to men. When they are flirty, and guys give them attention, they feel special and desirable. Therefore, if she is extremely flirty, it is probably because she is not very confident in herself.

    Hope this helps!

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  • 9 years ago

    I knew a woman who was so friendly that she gave everyone the wrong impression that she was flirting, when she truly wasn't. Don't know if that helps, but that's my two cents.

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