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Hi so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a month. He wants me to do stuff with him but i dont want too because he is not a virgin but i am. ( im 14 and hes 15 ) So i dont want to catch anything especially since he told me that the girl was good and they didnt use protection. ( it happened in the store dressing room apparently ) He has been asking repeatedly to like hj and bj and do him but i dont want to how can i get him to understand even though i keep telling him.

Question 2.

Today we were at school cuddling at lunch and "this girl who likes him" walked by and he was hiding and he was like " oh ****" im like what? why are you hiding if nothing is going on because i will call her back over here and ask her whats going on. he said its just that she is going to want to talk to him and he doesnt want to talk to her. ( i did confront her one time telling her to keep her distance)

Do you believe that? do you think something is going on between them because shes a big ho3 though and people say they would always flirt before but i dont know when before was before we started dating.

3) how do i stop being a paranoid gf. because i get so jealous and stuff if hes around other girls. & the nasty stuff he did in the past is messing up our relationship because thats the reason i dont want to do stuff with him. how do i forget about all that. Because hes been very nasty with i heard 3 girls very nasty. it grosses me out. blah

THANKSSS !

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  • 9 years ago
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    You are being a bit naive. You shouldn't even be pondering over this. You are 14, get yourself out of this terrible situation. You're to good for that. Dump him. You will be broken up soon enough whether you do or he does; but if you do it, you keep your pride. Quit second guessing yourself young lady :) You will do what is right. (I'm a high school Junior)

  • 9 years ago

    WELL... First off I would never have a boyfriend who keeps asking me 2 do crap. That's just him trying 2 get stuff.... I don't think he really, really likes you if he keeps begging you. That's kind of ridiculous. If the girl DOES do it with alot of people.. I would say that he had SOMETHING to do with her. It just looks like you're a new girl he's going 2 dump. I'm not 100 sure.. && I could be terribly wrong.. but so could some1 else. & It just looks like he is using you for "stuff". It also seems he did it with that girl. (BTW I'M 13)

    I hope I helped,

    --D'anna.

    P.S.

    He doesn't look like a keeper if he keeps begging you, has a BAD past, and you don't even feel that interested.

    Source(s): Experience and knowlede! ;)
  • 9 years ago

    It appears to me that because you won't give in he's finding others who will and he doesn't want to talk to them afterward. If you're not ready don't let ANYONE talk or nag you into doing what you don't want to do. At 14 I don't care what your peers are doing you're too young for sex and you're doing the right thing by fighting to keep your virginity. You can only give it away once and it should be when you're ready and to someone special. If ANY boy can't accept that he doesn't respect or deserve you. You have good sense and maturity for your age. Don't let anyone change you. As to how to tell them no, it's simple. Say no no no no no as long as it takes.

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    5 years ago

    properly, if what your cousin reported exchange into untrue then tell this guy the fact. If he quite likes then you definitely he will believe you and be prepared to offer your dating yet another go. And this cousin of yours is a non-pal and can bounce off a construction.

  • 9 years ago

    tell him u do not want to do things with him because your too early in the relationship and its normal to be suspicious if he hides from other girls.

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