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SpottedFire asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 years ago

Just please help. Relationship.?

I am 16. I know I'll fall in love 1000000 more times. But it's different. I know how that must sound. I've just never cried this much. Or missed anyone this much. This guy, he's exactly like me. He understands my cheesy references, and all my lame jokes. He's not like any of my past boyfriends.

I genuinely think he's perfect.

And he thought the same of me. I don't want anyone else. I don't want to move on.

I haven't even explained. Alright, the bottom line is I can't talk to him or see him. He goes to a different school. I would see him everyday before, but for parental reasons, I can't anymore.

I know I'm young, I'm only in highschool. I know it's not likely I have a future with him. Im not ignorant of that.

I just want to know how I can get him off my mind? Please help. When I think of him I just keep getting depressed.

Thank you for reading.

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  • Miss Lugubrious
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
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    You know a lot for high school....when I was 16 I swore I would be with my boyfriend FOOOREEVVEEERRRR, hahh. Didn't last more than 2 years.

    So you think highly of him. That's great. Since you know so much about falling in love, it should be no surprise to you that you can bond with more than one guy, and feel so strongly about more than one guy in your lifetime. I've dated 3 "he's perfect for me"s. I'm in my mid-20's and perhaps I've found "the one", but who knows. Right now I'm happy and he's happy. It's been 3 years.

    You don't need to get him off your mind, but perhaps you can look at this with the perspective you gave in your own question. You may well in fact fall in love 1000 more times (hopefully less). You may not.

    You like him...now find something to do with your time. Write how you feel and put it in your drawer..when you're ready to revisit those feelings open the drawer and take it out. In between them work on your favorite hobbies.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You can't , you just have to get used to it start talking to other guys and and dnt try to get a boyfriend right away but talk to them

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