Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and the Yahoo Answers website is now in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Guys- Friends With Benefits?

How do guys actually feel about the "friends with benefits" set up?

Do they actually enjoy the relationship-less sex?

By the way, I'm a 20 year old girl and very much curious on a guys opinion.

4 Answers

Relevance
  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Idk about others, but my opinion on this is very twisted. If I truly care for a girl and I have the time and energy to put forth, yes I would like to date her. In some cases, if I'm too tied up with school and I can't go out with her regularly or keep a solid relationship going, then friends with benefits works out great. In friends with benefits, there are a few things that I like. 1) If I end up going out with a girl and then I don't like her, I end up feeling miserable because it would be very hard to break her heart. 2) There are disputes, fights, regular things in relationships, no b.s. in friends with benefits 3) There is no cheating with friends with benefits, I can fool around with any other girl without feeling guilty. All that said, I respect all girls, but a girlfriend is more special, I have to impress her, and be romantic. Friends with benefits is more physical, less emotional. Whichever fits your needs. I know this makes me sound like an a*shole but I have a girlfriend right now, I haven't ever cheated on her, I never will. I've had like 2 friends with benefits. If you have a friend like that, don't expect him to comfort you or take you on elaborate dates... Oh and of course relationship-less sex is enjoyed, it's still sex, and it feels secretive and dirty

    Source(s): Teen guy
  • 9 years ago

    Im a 17 year old guy, and i like it. Theres no stress and commitment of a relationship which is the best part about it, i know up here it works out better and everyone likes it

  • 9 years ago

    Friends with benefits is cool with us as long as you keep feelings out of it. And we don't wanna hear about u and any other guys. Other than that it's a pretty nice situation to be in!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    i would like it at first, but i think i might want a relationship later.

    im a guy email me with more questions? dustinblock5.7.97@gmail.com

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.