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Help? What would you do in this situation?...I need answers!?
Ok, so here's the story. My friend, I'm just going to call her "K," has been "friends" with this girl named "J, for about a year now. But here's the thing, K is only pretending to be J's friend because she's scared of her. In second grade, J punched K right in the nose, and K has been afraid of her ever since, but somehow they started talking again. And now K is afraid to tell her that she doesn't want to be her friend anymore. She thinks J might hurt her again. J is pretty aggressive, and mean at times. And I don't want to be the one to fight her battles for her. So what should K do? Should she stand up to her? Or just remain "friends" with her? K is my best friend by the way. Please, I need suggestions. Fast.
4 Answers
- VickyLv 59 years agoFavorite Answer
You don't just end a friendship like a break up. You don't say "hey, I don't want to be friends with you anymore". What you do is you stop talking to them. If your friend is scared to suddenly stop talking to this aggressive "friend", then tell her to do it gradually. Slowly stop talking to J. When J invites K to hang out, K should say she's busy or can't make it.
When you're in 2nd grade, your level of maturity is a lot different. Now that you're all older, no one's going to start a fight just because a friendship ended. If anything, there'd only be drama, gossiping, back stabbing, etc. But I mean c'mon now. Being involved in drama is a part of growing up, so K shouldn't be stressing about drama.
- Anonymous9 years ago
tell someone!
this guy punched me round the face in ninth grade but my boyfriend sorted him out. she wont be doing that again, i can tell you
it doesnt have to be a boyfriend though, in third grade this pervy kind kept trying to kiss me o.o My brother, who was 14 at the time warned him to stay away from me or there would be trouble ahaha
but dont use parents cos they'll go all like 'maybe we should phone the school if shes getting bullied' and all that stuff
- 9 years ago
As my grandpa used to say...
Duct tape + Sparta kick + Creativity = Problem solved
anyways...
tellyour friend to just say it
wuts the worsst thing that can happen
and its alright to stick up for your friends
- 9 years ago
Tell her the fuuck off if she trys to hurt K again... Make he feel like the idiot, but don't let K be fake.
