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Jxx asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 9 years ago

I am really sick of my mother?

I don't want to sound like a brat, but my mother is driving me insane. Every five minutes she continues to nag me with homework. If something happens at school she emails my teachers and makes it worse. She continuously calls me fat even though I'm not, which results in me feeling incredibly depressed. My mother basically called me a failure today. She acts like an idiot the other half of the time, trying to be 'funny', but actually just acting like a giant five year old.

What should I do?

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  • 9 years ago
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    you should sit down with her and tell her that ur not five years old u no whats write and wrong and that she is being mean and making u depressed she shouldnt be saying the stuff she is saying to u thats not right just ignore her some parents have no one else to take there anger issues out on so they do it to there kids iv gone thro alot of the same thing and it was deperessing me to the point i ran away witch plz dont do its not worth it maybe u should try and say at one of ur family members close by for a while so she can have her own space and you can have hers i hope i helped

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Thank god you are more mature than her . keep what happens at school to yourself if she keeps emailing school making matters worse it may be best if you talk to your teacher yourself if something is going on and if its your teacher or they do not resolve the problem then take it up with next in line manager show you are adult enough to deal with it yourself just ignore her rude remarks a lot of mothers get jealous of their daughters youth that what it sounds like because now you are not her baby you have grown up and look lovely so just feel sorry for her that this is the way she is going about things also give yourself a break every 20 Min's when you are studying your brain loses concentration after 20 Min's take ten min break before going back to your studies

  • 9 years ago

    Yell straight back at her. Just tell her you dont have homework that night, tell her your teachers complained about her emailing them. Also next time she calls you fat just say oh well because she cant control your weight. Just tell her shes a failure at a mother say things to make her cry and maybe she will get the hint.

    Source(s): my mother half of the time
  • 9 years ago

    I'm not trying to be smart but is she going through menopause? Some woman act like this when they go thru the change of life. Their hormones go crazy.

    I would suggest just talking to her and having a heart to heart conversation with her. Tell her exactly how you feel. Good lucky, Hunny!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It is Mum's job to nag, yours to feel put up on.

    She will want you to do well, even if you don't see it at the moment. The homework thing is typical.

    Just do it. It's one less area of conflict. [Plus it may improve your education and therefore your life chances.]

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe she is having a hard time herself for some reason like work or something, and she doesnt know what to do so she is releasing her stress on you, gove her sometime, if she still acts like that, telll someone like your Dad or teacher or aunt .

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Your m other could be going through a bad time, so may be worth trying to find out what it is all about.

    try not to alienate your mother, but instead work with her.

  • Bob
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    act just like she does. u will love her more .

    Source(s): personal experience
  • 9 years ago

    i know it is soooo annoying...but you gotta love her ;P

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