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Why does my boyfriend need space?
Guys I need your help. Me and my boyfriend were talking today and he has been soooooo sweet to me it is unreal. But I asked him what he was doing and it seemed like he got irritated.. You know? Then he told me to hold on. And I asked why? And when he got back he said he had to call his mom and I didnt even care I just asked why and he said to me " What the **** does it matter my god" And I said "why are you so mad? I didnt even do anything!" And he said Leah I hate how you ask so many questions!" And I flipped and said you need to go til you can not be a douche and calm down!! I said until then im going" He said "k" And that was at 1:45 he still has not texted me its been an hour almost an hour and a half.. do i text him... or wait ? what do i do?
5 Answers
- ?Lv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
Dear Leah,
Is there insecruity issues going on here with either of you? .
As for his reponse to your asking him [ in his words] so many questions an geting pissed at you because of it . I can so relate , as i myself ask alot of questions about things an people . Its not because i am nosy ,its because thats just a part of who iam . An that irritaes alot of people just as it sounds like it irritates your boyfriend.
When it comes to your asking questions , your not doing anything wrong at all. Your just being you and that part of your personality is one of his ' buttons '
Lets put it this way leah , would he prefer that you did not ask any questions at all? [ i m sure he would love that ] an not care? We ask because we care or somtimes because we actually nosy. But mostly because we care.
Personally , leah , I would let him cool down an let him come to you in txs or phone or however he chooses to. Its not a matter of space ,its a matter of him getting pissed at you for having an ; inquiring mind ' Ask him why it bothers him so much ? An remember , there are alot worse things he could be pissed at
You really made a bad situation worse by calling him a 'douche bag . was that really the most wisest thing to do ?
Source(s): Anger , like being drunk has us become people we arent normally in both words an actions . think before you speak - ?Lv 59 years ago
You wait. He obviously just doesn't like when you ask a lot of questions which is understandable. Just give him some time to himself and then when everything is back to normal work on not asking so many questions. Especially things like "are you ok?" and "are you sure?". Guys don't like to share feelings so when you ask questions they get frustrated because you are pushing them to open up which they don't want to do. When he wants to talk, he'll text you and talk to you
- ?Lv 69 years ago
He reached the part were he wuestioning if he loves you or not that or maybe family problems that involve you maybe some family members are saying to ditch you and maybe he doesnt want to. So that could be why.
- 9 years ago
huh do not text himmmmmmm never , see u r girllllllll n all we r girlllllllllllllls just like u , we just want our BF b satisfiedddddddd n yyyy the hell they are not , u did not ask him anything wrong , what dose he want ? huh leave him till he test u believe meeeeeeee , let himmmmmmmmm feel gulityyyyy about what did he say to u ........
- Anonymous9 years ago
He's an air head.
Text me and we'll talk.
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