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I think my boyfriend is using me to get with my friend?
I started dating him 1 month ago and we're quite close, we both suffer from depression and we're helping each other through it, I also get very paranoid so being in a relationship is hard for me because of trust issues. He also has trust issues as his ex girlfriend cheated on him 7 times. Anyway, before we started dating he told me he liked my friend, but she didn't like him so I feel like a rebound in a way. Just someone to hug and be with. I can't help but think what do i have to offer, he's the nicest person ever but i can't help what I'm feeling. Last year he was dating this girl just to get close with her sister and I worry he's doing the same to me. Yesterday me and him and my friend, the one who he likes/d and they were really flirtatious and i left to go home early in tears and he just ignored the fact i was upset, I don't know what to do. I know you're probably thinking just tell him, and honesty and things like that but I don't want him to think i'm protective and psycho. ~ Sorry it's quite long.
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- ?Lv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
Ask him what his intentions are with your friend, it seems to me like he is trying to get with her but I don't know him personally so I can't tell you that the only thing I can tell you is to keep an eye on him because he doesn't seem trustworthy and he doesn't seem like the good type for a boyfriend especially if he's flirting with your friend, if I were you I would have dumped this guy already however I am not you and this is not my decision but I'm just telling you this isn't a promising or fulfilling relationship so which ever decision you choose to stay with him or not to stay with him
Good luck.
- Anonymous9 years ago
If i were you i would have to talk to him. I know when you get something in your head it can be hard to forget about it. You could tell him that him flirting with your friend hurt you and if he cares he'll say sorry. Just remember that he could just be being friendly. Does he act like this with other girls? Trust issues can be really hard to overcome but i always find that talking about it helps. Just bring it up in conversation if your worried that he'll think your being over protective. I'm sure it's nothing. Good luck :)
- Anonymous9 years ago
Hun, coming from a guy, most boys at your age are immature pieces of ****. They've mostly just got boobs on the brain. However, there are also more good ones than you think or even see.
IMO, just move on from him before it gets worse. You may not see it now, but trust me, there's plenty of fish in the sea and many who really do want you. Not just another girl, but you. You'll realize that more as you get older.
- 9 years ago
You are defintly wrong you have to go and talk to your friend and tell her if she likes him or no and may be if she doesnot you can agree with her to go and tell him that she doesn't like him with out she telling him that you told her to do so and just the fact that he didn't care that you were upset leaves you with only one thing to do go and slap him right now and tell him I can do better than you
Source(s): Me - Anonymous9 years ago
MEOW AND BARK AT HIM AND MAYBE HE'LL FIND THAT CUTE AND MAYBE JUST MAYBE HE WILL THROW YOU AT A DUMPSTER
